Adopted children have the right to know where and who they come from. They live part of their life with their supposed to be biological parents which are not. The children wonder in their own world what happened and why they ended up where they are now. Children need answers just like adults. Adoption needs to be open because their may be health concerns regarding their biological parents, open adoption may be healthy for all adoptive children and parents, and courts tend to prefer open adoption rather then closed adoption due to the process. In addition to the health concerns of the child his or her parents may have, they may be aware and try to find a way to keep them from getting any type of disease. The health issues helps determine the…
the parents of an adoptee would remain anonymous, such a scenario would be considered a closed adoption. A closed adoption is when a child is adopted by a family, but the records of such an event are kept sealed. Therefore, the child is unable to contact his or her biological parents and is left with very little information about their background or family history. Alternatively, there are open adoptions, which allow the birth parents and the adoptee to have contact, or even hold visits. Within…
that were separated due to adoption, but later on in those families lives they may have decided they want to meet that child sent off into a new life. All around the country states claim that having sealed adoption records and original birth certificates is a form of privacy for the original birth parents. Many families have gone through heartbreak while trying to reach out to these original families due to the policies states have set on adoptions. Having an open adoption means all records are…
Reamer (2007) defines an open adoption as “an adoption where at least one biological parent and their child’s adoptive parents have contact with each other, share some identifying information with each other, and the child, when old enough, knows that contact exists.” Through this definition, there can be many different types of open adoption. Some open adoptions include the birth parent as a prominent role in the child’s life. Other open adoptions limit the contact between birth parent and…
Rammo Mr. Brazzel ENG 102 – Final Essay MLA 30 April 2016 Open Adoption "You planted your garden; you have to live in it". Those were the words of Moriah Dialer, an unmarried 19 years old pregnant woman. She was a college dropout, working as a waitress in West Virginia. After getting pregnant, Moriah considered having an abortion. She didn't have any money, and her parents wouldn't pay for the procedure. Moriah and the baby's father talked about getting married, but soon realized it wasn't a…
different ways. Personally my family was created using open adoption and it has been an amazing and unbelievable experience. I was born in Boston, Massachusetts on March 25, 1999 to my biological parents Melody Chase and Mike Wall. However these are not the parents that took me home. Vivian and Kevin Hurton took me home on that March day and raised me to become the person I am today. My parents have provided me with everything imaginable and open adoption made this all possible. By definition…
In contrast, some people do not think adoption records should be open to the adoptee because birth parents may not want to be found. Birth parents have multiple considerations to make during the adoption process, especially choosing whether or not to keep their records open. For instance, it is possible a mother may desire a closed adoption if the pregnancy was unplanned, and the birth father decided to leave. The birth mother may not want the child to know the father left them. Miriam Reitz, a…
Open adoptions is a way to retain conversation between all parties once the adoption is completed. There are no guidelines establishing how much contact is needed to justify an open adoption, but each party will benefit from the decision (Mintzer, 2003, Key, 37). The birth parents will have less of a guilty conscience for giving their children away if a continuing dialogue is maintained with the adoptive family. Also, it may open up an opportunities for the children to reach out to their…
Melissa Hranicka RDG 029 PAT 10 adoption Controversies May 10, 2015 Jane Nast, President of the American Adoption Congress, wrote an opinion for The CQ Researcher (1999) arguing for the records of adopted children to be unsealed. She supports her opinion using her 20 years of personal experience working with parents and children involved in adoption. Her feelings are that by leaving the records sealed society is denying adoptive children the ability to find out things about themselves that may…
it better or worse? These are just a few of the questions women considering adoption think about in regards to their child being adopted by an adoptive family. Studies show that adopted children grow up to be as happy and healthy as their peers. In some instances, they even seem to have more advantages and opportunities than children in the general population. Adopted children can especially benefit from healthy relationships and continued communication with their birth parents throughout their…