Throughout life, one is influenced by relationships, whether it be from close friends, strangers or even house pets. The intrinsic nature of oneself is developed through interpersonal interactions and one’s character continues to evolve through life. Likewise, in Sara Gruen's Water for Elephants, the different types of relationships Jacob Jankowski experiences in his youth lead to his development into a caring, compassionate and understanding man. Yet, Jacob’s strong sexual desire for women…
Relationships are all around us; friendships, frenemies, and romantic relationships. Some people think they know what the perfect relationship is, but the perfect relationship does not exist. Look at the relationships of the main characters in the books Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck and Romeo and Juliet by William Shakespeare. After going through many different relationship struggles, challenges, bumps, and bruises, the main character George in Of Mice and Men ultimately kills his friend…
Relationships feel constant pushes and pulls of dialectical tensions—these tensions are ever present because they are inherent to the creation of long-lasting, and functional, relationships. Since these are ever present and ever important, knowing what they are and the strategies for handling these dialectical tensions are extremely important. There is a nuance to finding the balance between the poles, and between the people, involved in these relationships. These are not necessarily romantic…
There are many different aspects of our society today, and relationships are a huge part of the society in many ways. In today's world there are many circumstances where relationships take place between various types of people. There are many types of relationships in everyone's lives and there are three important aspects that everyone should have and they are family, friends, and lastly love. These three different types of relationships are portrayed in many different ways through the novel,…
Knapp´s relationship model explains how relationship grows, last, and how they end. The model is composed of ten different stages that help us to understand how a relationship progresses and deteriorates. In this essay, I will describe my relationship with my ex-girlfriend following the stages of this model. The Knapp´s Relationship Escalation Model is composed of the initiation, experimentation, intensifying, integration, and the bonding of a relationship. The first stage is initiation that is…
Parental Influences on a Romantic Relationship How much do our parents influence our romantic relationships? Numerous studies have focused on adolescence into early adulthood on the effect of parents on their offspring’s romantic relationships. Studies of attachment styles, conflict resolution, and divorce of parents, have shown parental effects on adult romantic relationships. So, although we may be adults we are still influenced by our parents due to what we learned from them through social…
The relationship between Harry and Sally and the many ways of how they met and became friends. Using the relationship maintenance and what happens in between. Harry and Sally met in college, their first encounter with each other was not so smooth. Harry was dating Sally’s friend, Amanda. Sally offered to ride with Harry to New York, where they both were going to start their careers. While driving, Harry wanted to know about Sally and her life. The whole conversation was about Sally and how she…
Symbolism of Relationship There are some storm in our lives, including different hardships, challenges, and struggles. “The Storm” is a story of symbolism written by Kate Chopin, who is an American writer. The story focuses on multiple relationships between two couples. However, it especially describes the affair between Calixta, who is Bobinot’s wife and Alcee, who is Clarisse’s husband. The story begins with a day with heavy rain and the thunderstorm. As the bad weather comes, the author uses…
Days of Summer is the pure definition of a “complicated” relationship. Although one of the main characters, Summer, told Tom, another main character, that she didn 't want to be “anyone 's anything” at the start of their relationship, of course her actions proved to be a lot different than her words. Subsequently, the main point of the movie was love is real, but it depends on fate. There were many stages of the main character’s “relationship” that corresponds with what we have learned this…
Prior to dating my wife, I was a very different person when it came to romantic relationships. I was very selfish, independent, and unwilling to compromise. I did not like to get to close to anyone for fear of disclosing information that the individual could eventually use to hurt me. Prior to our relationship I had no idea of the pain that could come from a romantic relationship. I learned this lesson very well when my wife broke up with me. It was then that I also learned what people mean when…