Differences Between Hearing And Listening

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1.) Hearing and listening are not the same. Hearing is the process in which sound waves strike the eardrum and cause vibrations that are transmitted to the brain. On the other hand you have listening which occurs when the brain reconstructs these electrochemical impulses into a representation of the original sound and then gives them meaning. Hearing is automatic, but listening on the other hand consists of several stages. When listening, one first needs to hear the message, then attend to the message. After showing interest, the next step in listening is understanding the message that was communicated. Furthermore, after one has understood, one needs to respond. Responding to a message serves two important functions: it helps you …show more content…
There are many facts that cause people to perceive information differently. Mindless listening refers to the fact that it is low-level thinking that free ours mind for more mindful listening. Mindful thinking requires high-level information processing. One actually has to work at mindful thinking, they compare it to body’s reaction to physical effort.
2.) There are many factors that contribute to our faulty listening behaviors. One of the facts being pseudo listening which is giving the appearance of being attentive. One may appear to be listening and might even nod or respond occasionally, but they are truly thinking about something else. I do this to my daughter when I am trying to get my homework done! Selective listening is another reason for faulty listening behaviors. Selective listeners respond only to the parts of a speaker’s remarks that interest them. This happens to all of us from time to time. An example of this is when I am at working and I am trying to help a Veteran, and then an alarms starts going off, or someone else starts yelling nurse, I selectively listen to the Veteran that I was initially listening to, and tune the other noises out; unless someone is in immediate
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The cross-examining prosecution attorney is a good example of an ambusher. Insulated listening are almost the opposite of selective listeners. Insulated listeners avoid certain topic all together. When a subject arises that they’d rather not deal with, they simply fail to hear it, or acknowledge it at all. A great example of this is when I am at work, there is so many different problems going on, and some of the problem I choose not to acknowledge anymore because they seem to never get fixed. Insensitive listening is when people are unable to receive another person’s message clearly. Insensitive listeners are not able to pick up on someone’s subtle and unconscious choice of words or nonverbal clues or both; they aren’t able to look beyond the words and behaviors to understand their hidden meaning. For instance, if the babysitter told me they put my daughter in a time out, and I were to tell them they can’t put my daughter in a time out; the babysitter might be hurt because they put my daughter in a time out because she was being rude and

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