Expectations Of Connie's Life

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I agree that Connie lives in a world filled with expectations that were created by her sister, June, and her mother. These expectations were created at such a high level that Connie knew she could not accomplish them. Since June was older she was able to accomplish things and that made her mother boast about them to Connie and others. Connie lived in an atmosphere where anything she did could not compare to her sister success. Her family relationship could have persuaded her into thinking that her family does not need or want her, so why not go with someone who does.

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