Stressing academic success is not good for children Every parent has their own way of caring and nurturing their children. There are different societies in which we live in and they have their peculiar way of developing kids. Chinese mothers are the one who gives a maximum attention to their kids and at the same time, they have humongous expectation from their kids. They are often labelled as a strict parent who wants 100% result for their child under given circumstances. Does the strict nature of Chinese mothers help their kids in succeeding? Is it good to give such huge amount of pressure to the kids? What is the current scenario on how various societies implement parenting? Looking at all these speculations, the topic” stressing academic
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Chinese mothers don’t appreciate education being a fun ride. They think it should be taken seriously and it should have garnered your attention completely. They think it to be fun only when you excel at it. The opinion cannot be totally debunked and has a sense attached to it, but imposing education in a completely serious way can affect student attitude and they may start to take it as a burden. I know from my personal experience that what the author is trying to convey is wrong. Being an Asian child, I can say that my parents gave me complete freedom in expressing my point of view and were never trying to belittle me in any aspect such as education, interest of work and my future choices. Contrary to the approach of Chinese parents, my upbringing helped me to be focused in studies and I could attain good grades. I was among the best students in my class not being socially awkward. Therefore, a good parent necessarily doesn’t have to be strict in getting excellent results from their children and can attain a liberal and cool atmosphere around their children. But the approach of Chinese mothers cannot be criticized completely as it helps to make children focused and attentive towards the goal. A lot of children have been successful and the success ratio is high compared to that of western parents. They provide their extensive time and effort in making sure that they get the point …show more content…
The thing that may define your past, carve your future and to many people, it acts as a seed of self-revelation cannot be induced by fear and pressure. It subconsciously generates an air of disinterest to it. A subject which can redefine your existence and which can create a whole new individual out of you should not be carried by the negative emotion. In the conclusion, parents should act liberal and fierce at the same time. Parents play an important part in shaping up the future of children. Academic achievement is an important aspect of a children’s life, but it is not the complete element that the child inherits. So, parents should understand the importance and guide their children in an effective
Chinese mothers don’t appreciate education being a fun ride. They think it should be taken seriously and it should have garnered your attention completely. They think it to be fun only when you excel at it. The opinion cannot be totally debunked and has a sense attached to it, but imposing education in a completely serious way can affect student attitude and they may start to take it as a burden. I know from my personal experience that what the author is trying to convey is wrong. Being an Asian child, I can say that my parents gave me complete freedom in expressing my point of view and were never trying to belittle me in any aspect such as education, interest of work and my future choices. Contrary to the approach of Chinese parents, my upbringing helped me to be focused in studies and I could attain good grades. I was among the best students in my class not being socially awkward. Therefore, a good parent necessarily doesn’t have to be strict in getting excellent results from their children and can attain a liberal and cool atmosphere around their children. But the approach of Chinese mothers cannot be criticized completely as it helps to make children focused and attentive towards the goal. A lot of children have been successful and the success ratio is high compared to that of western parents. They provide their extensive time and effort in making sure that they get the point …show more content…
The thing that may define your past, carve your future and to many people, it acts as a seed of self-revelation cannot be induced by fear and pressure. It subconsciously generates an air of disinterest to it. A subject which can redefine your existence and which can create a whole new individual out of you should not be carried by the negative emotion. In the conclusion, parents should act liberal and fierce at the same time. Parents play an important part in shaping up the future of children. Academic achievement is an important aspect of a children’s life, but it is not the complete element that the child inherits. So, parents should understand the importance and guide their children in an effective