Self-Discrepancy Theory

When I started the Common Application on August 1st, being the overachiever that I am, I believed that I did not have an identity to write about. I knew that I liked reading and music or that I hated algebra, but I didn't have an overarching sense of self. How could I write about myself in such a way as to impress admissions officers when I didn't even think I had a personality worth noting? I begged my friends and teachers to describe me but dismissed them when they said I was something like…

Defining the Self Can you really interpret oneself? If so, how can one person be continuously developing and be defined for that precise amount of time? Every day you are constantly changing, some people with dispute at the fact that they never really change, that they have always been the same. To me, I believe that it is fallacious, we humans evolve over time and we learn through experiences that come our way. The self is actually a problematical concept, the destiny of the self creates so…

picture of an individual’s psychology, it was helpful to incorporate self psychology theory in order to further understand Melissa. Self psychology focuses on the development of the cohesive self through interactions with selfobjects, which may be a person, various forms of art, or other symbols. Selfobjects validate and attune to the individual (Flanagan, 2011). According to Kohut, there are three poles of the self: the grandiose self, the idealized parental imago, and twinship (Flanagan,…

introduction to ‘Identity and difference’ is a running prose establishing the concept of Identity and difference within universal, regional and private levels. Equipping the reader with the necessary means to understand and contextualise the principal theory, when referenced in the text. The content of the introduction is largely a brief summation of the later chapters and how they ‘all deal, in different ways, with the question of Identity.’ Although Woodward expertly conveys how the chapters…

Throughout our life there are moments where it is detrimental to our sense of self that we feel as though we belong. This could be when we are growing up as a child, which would be arguably one of the most important times of the development of our sense of self, and perhaps as we are teenager’s as we try to fit in socially, and then finally the transition from adolescent to adult as we try to gain a sense of who we are in this life and what our purposes are. This can often be considered as the…

spot. The superior remain on top while the inferior submit to their lesser position. The inferior’s struggle to attain a higher position only generates profit for those on top rather than for himself/herself. Based on Turner’s Social Categorisation Theory, the conclusion can be made that an individual can not escape his/her previous social…

perceive their physical self and the thoughts and feelings accompanying that perception. (National Eating Disorders Collaboration, 2015). There is both unhealthy and healthy body image. Healthy body image is present in an individual who is content in one 's own skin, accepting and happy in their own body and feels good within their self. This perception also understands that one 's inner self is what’s important rather than the view that appearance determines a person’s self-value. Unhealthy…

growth: we have committed the act of self betrayal. We deny our inner truths, look outside ourselves for answers, we hide who we really are in order to fit in, and we fail to hold ourselves accountable to our own standards and commitments to ourselves. For some of us, it is an occasional slip that feels noticeably wrong; for others, it is a way of life so deeply-rooted that we hardly know who we are anymore. We hear it all the time, “be true to your Self”. But what does that really mean?…

The Development of Identity and Self-Concept When individuals look into a mirror, there is much more looking back besides just physical characteristics. As complex organisms, with high levels of thinking, feeling, and social functioning, humans have both unique, inherent traits, as well as unique life experiences. Both of these areas mold together into the development of one’s identity and self-concept. At no other time is the formulations of identity and self-concept more important than during…

My Honor and Privilege: An Exploration into My Personal Identity Currently society is exhibiting a duality of individual’s personal identity. The unique individual is valued for their ability to be themselves at the same time acceptance and belonging to the group is strived for. In this paradoxically society, I have been examining myself and own identity as it is a product of all the experienced I have accumulated in my life. My sense of sense has been shaped by the privileges and the honors…