Essay On Remember Back In Middle School When Boys Does Not Matter

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Remember back in middle school when the boys did not matter. It looks like things have changed since then. Your boyfriend is all that you care about these days. I simply imply that you should really think about what you are doing these days and whom you spend your days with as high school ends. You, my friend, need to think about the “what if” in this situation. From my point of view, I can refresh your mind on those “what ifs” with nothing but the truth. I want nothing but the best for you. First things first, I am your best friend he is not. You may be able to say that he has a special place in your heart and you love spending time, but who has been there through all the fights you two have had, or when you guys were on your breaking point …show more content…
For one, there is always going to be secrets that you will not be able to tell him. Who are you going to come to when you need advice on what shoes look better. Which also means that I am just a better shopping partner too. Boyfriends are always going to tell you that the dress looks good on you. Your friends are going to give you the truth that it looks a bit unflattering. The real deal is that you and I can share clothes. It is obvious that you cannot call him up right before an event and ask to borrow something to wear. In addition, I do not think he is going to be the one to tell you that you do not need another dress because you never wear them. There are just some things your friends can be the only ones to tell you. The last thing is that you do not ever have to feel like you have to “impress” my family. My mom and dad love you no matter what and want the best for you; they literally look at you like another …show more content…
It is still your happiness and future you could be putting on the line. I hope that you think about what your future could potentially be like with or without him. You should not expect too much out of him right now because you do not know what could happen later on. He may think he is great right now but who do you think is going to be there when things go downhill. I hope you do not expect me to if you keep pushing me away right now because I may not be here later on either. You are a very smart girl and I hope you make the right choices and go about things much differently than how you are so you have someone there still when you need

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