The Battle Hymn Of The Tiger Mom Analysis

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In the essay, “The Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mom,” Amy Chua asserts that “Chinese mothers or parents” are stricter than their western counterparts. They have a different mindset in defining success on their children. This authoritative type of parenting emphasizes that parents know what is better for their kids. The child’s wishes are not considered primary in the decision-making process. Her opinion is supported when Chua forced her daughter, Lulu, to play the piano piece relentlessly until she got it right.
I agree with Chua’s essay on parenting but only to some extent. As a native of the Philippines, my culture share the same core Asian values on filial piety, family honor, and respect for elders. It is true that the parents dictate what

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