Having A Baby Essay

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Giving birth to life is a miracle. Most women who plan on having a child would be more excited because it 's planned. Planning for a child is a very important situation. Making sure the baby has all the right necessities such as food, clothes, diapers, and a warm roof over their heads. Beginning financially stable with your spouse is also another reason to look at when having a baby.
Well, I would like to share my story of becoming a mother. Now I was one of those women 's who would put work over everything. I had two jobs my apartment and going to school full-time. Every time someone ask me, "are you having a baby in the future", I 'll reply with the ridiculous face and say "no! Not ever"! It 's pretty amusing how karma returns the laugh. But I knew a baby wasn 't what I want at the moment. I was focused on school to become a part of the F.B.I. So if I did want a baby, my job requires me to stay out of harm 's way. I couldn 't possible put a baby life at risk behind a job.
All that change on June 5, 2015. Now I was a relationship but was very unhappy with the person I chose to be with. On that day, I was feeling strange, and I know I 've missed my monthly cycle days before. So I decide to take a pregnancy test. Never
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At that point it wasn 't about me; it was my baby and that the only thing that matter. After I build my spirit up about my baby coming on February 3, 2015, I only was dilated 1 cm on my due date. I begin to get scared and worried about my baby health being as though this was my first child. The doctor reassured me that he is fine and I was to get induced at 41 weeks. On February 10, 2015, at 6:09 pm is when my whole life changed before my eyes forever. I heard my son crying and the nurse places him on my chest. I was in disbelieve, excited, anxiety, nervous, all in one. All types ' emotions ran through my mind. I was a mother, me the girl who said she would never have

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