An Analysis Of Modern Communication In Modern Romance By Aziz Ansari

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Do you remember the first time you asked someone out? Do you remember what you said and the emotions you felt? Did you ask through text, over the phone, or in person? The Initial Ask calls for a checklist of criteria, all of which are covered in the second chapter of Modern Romance: By Aziz Ansari. Whether you’re calling or texting or even meeting in person, asking out your love interest can be tricky.

Our tech based society is filled with communication possibilities. The most prevalent means of communicating is through text. However, knowing when it’s better to call or text has gotten lost over time. Rather than a phone call to relay important matters such a medical test reports or tragic occurrences. A simple text stating “I just got robbed” and other things of that nature may soon become the norm.
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We live in a text based society where the art of making a phone call seems to be almost nonexistent among young adults. Aziz gives a list of statistics proving this point. Making a phone call makes people nervous. It takes practice to be confident when you’re asking someone out over the phone. He gives an example of a boy talking to a girl over the phone, the way it used to be. With each call the boy gains confidence. He takes small steps, trying to break the ice. Finally he builds up enough courage to ask the girl out on a date. Most people would much rather simply send a text, so they can develop an attack plan and strategize their responses. It is believed that the communication skills of young adults are

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