I admit that throughout my life I have often failed to implement positive boundary laws and principles as outlined by Dr. Cloud and Dr. Townsend. The most distinct violation and subsequent consequences can be observed by my violation of Law #4: the Law of Power. This boundary law states, firstly, that you have the power to do some things that will bring the fruits of victory within your own boundaries, and yet conversely that you do not have the power to change others outside of your boundaries. I violated the latter by taking on the responsible to change the behaviors of my friend. I felt personally and morally responsible to make this person aware of their sin and to bring them to a state of repentance. I would constantly put myself
