Implications Of Death On A Child Essay

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Growing up in a single parent home, regardless of if a parent has died or there was a death it still takes a toll on a child. This may impact the development of a child’s development, although; “… only after age 9 does the child understand that death is the cessation of corporeal life, and that as a process it has the distinction of being universal” (Childers, Wimmer 1299). Even though a child at the moment may not understand the concept of death, there is still a longterm impact on their development. Many underestimate the importance that the parent-child relationship has in a child’s development, “Observational studies of infants, toddlers, and preschoolers have shown that, in most ways, fathers are as significant to their children and …show more content…
Older children are also more likely to be known to be more concerned with the topic of personal safety according the study that Woren conducted, and this is portrayed perfectly through Elinor. She is constantly concerned with not only her own wellbeing, but also that of her family. She continues throughout the book to put her own feelings aside, and think about her families feelings first. Although, at the time this may seem to be a positive action later in life this may cause many issues in later relationships. The birth order of a child seems to prove that the first born child takes on much of the responsibility after a parent has passed away, and through research this is proven to be true. First borns take note of changes in the surviving parent, and also tend to behave in ways that they figure would please the parent that has passed away. According to research, the death of a parent has a large psychological impact on the first born

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