Fatherless Role Model

Improved Essays
Sarah Bowen
4th Period
November 15,2015

Children in today's society lack proper role models. They don't have anyone to teach them right from wrong. These children have only poor examples to follow. Which results in multiple negative outcomes. Much of these children live in a fatherless or motherless home. In 1960, 92% of homes were headed by two parent families. Today that percentage is 67%

Growing up in a home where parents are split up or only living with a single parent changes a child's ideals about love and their outlook of life. A child may no longer believe in love or that an abusive relationship is okay. 43% of U.S. children live without their father. In homes where a father isn't present the statistics for things such as teen
…show more content…
Single fathers have a hard time nurturing children and often look for another women. But even if another women enters the household, the child can still be "motherless" because they still suffer from the same psychological issues as when they were without a mother at all.

A child who lives in a motherless or fatherless home might come from a situation where their parent is a convict. In recent years the amount of convicts in prison with minor children living outside has gone up tremendously. 1 in every 28 children have a parent incarcerated. Quite a few of these kids don't even know they have a parent in prison. They are told that the parent is on vacation or gone to a friend's. This causes even more issues with abandonment, because a child might be under the impression that their parent is choosing to be away from them.

Small children whose parent or parents are incarcerated have multiple development issues and have lacking social skills. Often they don't know how to express how they feel and are isolated from adults and those peers. Young adults and teens struggle with an embarrassment of having a parent in jail and have to deal with bullying. Many of those kids have a hard time making friends and find it extremely difficult to put trust into
…show more content…
In most cases of abuse the child knows or lives with the offender. Also in 2003, the statistics for toddler abuse was extremely high. This was a year much of the generation of today were toddlers. Many cases are sexual abuse and one of the parents is the offender.

This lack of role models leads to a long list of issues. Many children suffer from multiple mental issues. Many have abandonment issues and don't put trust into adults around them or their peers. This leads to a disconnect between the child and the people around them. Which can cause a child to isolate themselves and bottle up their feelings. This loneliness can lead to depression and a child might lash out at small things. This would cause a lot of disrespect to adults, especially teachers at school.

A child will most likely reach out for attention in multiple ways, acting out at school, running away, or getting into fights. After what this kid has been through, something as simple as expelling or suspending them from school isn't likely to change their behavior. Many of these children have a chip on their shoulder and have never had anyone in their life to show them to act any other way. Since their isn't any role models in their life, they don't know how else to act. Also if that's the way they have always acted, they certainly will disagree their is anything wrong with

Related Documents

  • Improved Essays

    Camp Diva Analysis

    • 1185 Words
    • 5 Pages

    The number of incarcerated parents are increasing everyday. Parental incarceration creates additional challenges for children and families often resulting in financial instability and or material hardships. The instability in family relationships and structure and residential mobility. The child’s behavior in school performance because a problem often times. The child deal with emotional trauma from being apart from their parent or parents.…

    • 1185 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Great Essays

    Mothers value the fathers being apart of the child’s life, but they do not rely on their help. Many women don’t claim their significant others to be apart of the household legally, due to the fact that it may affect the amount of welfare aid they receive. The common stereotype of a black fatherless home usually has to do with this…

    • 929 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Great Essays
  • Improved Essays

    During adolescence people are capable of being greatly influenced by important people in their lives. For this reason the roles of parenting can be determining factors in their children's mental health as they are important role models (“Parenting” n. pg.). There are many different styles of parenting they including authoritarian, authoritative and permissive. Authoritarian parenting forces children to follow strict rules and manifest blind submission. They are often overprotective and discourage pro-social activity.…

    • 473 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    “Not long ago, scientists thought the human brain was fully mature long before the teen years. While research shows that one’s brain reaches its maximum size between ages 12 and 14 (depending on whether you are a girl or a boy), it also shows that brain development is far from complete. Regions of the brain continue to mature all the way through a person’s early 20s,” (Scholastic 2). In William Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet, Juliet was only thirteen years old. Being that age, her parents wanted her to marry young, but since Juliet was only thirteen, she would not have been able to think if she really wanted to do this.…

    • 1280 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Trauma comes in many shapes and forms across the board. Trauma, or a deep distressing or disturbing experience, is experienced by everyone at some point in their lives. Children coming from hard places sometimes experience more trauma in their few years of life than some adults experience throughout their entire lives. Examples of trauma can be anywhere from sexual abuse, to living in poverty, moving from place to place, and even the death of a loved one. These traumas mold and shape the child emotionally and sometimes physically if the child as suffered neglect or physical abuse.…

    • 1549 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    Furthermore, in America today it is shown single parents homes are affecting many children, “ one- third of American children - a total of 15 million- are being raised without a father [and] nearly Five million live without a mother”( “The” n.pag). Just like Winston’s dad disappeared and nothing was said of it these children are going through the same situation by only having one parent. Most children with one parent are being raised by a single mother who provides for the family as a mother and a father. It is these mothers duties to bring food to the table and shelter above their head whitch was traditionally the father’s responsibility. In addition, a report released by the Census Bureau shows there are approximately 13.7 million single parents in the U.S.…

    • 1673 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Great Essays

    Have you ever looked at children or even young adults and wonder why they make certain decisions, and then ask yourself where their parents may be? According to fatherhood.org every one and three children live in father absent homes. It has been proven that children who have both parents in their household tend to do much better in most aspects within school, society, and also within their self-confidence. When dealing with children who lack confidence in themselves, it tends to stem from feeling a lack of being loved. For example, I interviewed a classmate of mine named April.…

    • 2392 Words
    • 10 Pages
    Great Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Incarcerated Parents

    • 1222 Words
    • 5 Pages

    The creation of an emotional and physical fragmentation of child-parent relationships usually occur during incarceration. This can mostly be mitigated when the sense of love and unity is restored. To this end, we facilitate scheduled visits so that the children can spend some quality time with their parents. While visiting their parents, we ensure the children are accompanied by our counselors who dedicate their efforts in counseling the parents on how to cope with life behind bars while still keeping some touch with the loved ones they have left…

    • 1222 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Seeking a relationship is one of the most human things that a person could ever do. Whether it is for platonic reasons or sexual, the drive to be associated with other individuals is natural for almost everybody in society, barring any dysfunctions or impaired mental states. The search for a partner is the one strive that is common across all cultures since “as social beings, most humans live in a matrix of relationships that, to a large extent, define their identity (Mellor, et al, 2008).” Need for social contact goes beyond just a simple urge to talk to one another since long periods of isolation can actually cause real damage to an individual’s mental health. There is a foundational need, almost akin to hunger, for relationships; this, once…

    • 704 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    In the article, Centers for Disease and Control and Prevention, it states, “In 2013, a total of 273,105 babies were born to women aged between 15 through 19.” Many people believe that shows like “16 and Pregnant” promote teenage pregnancies, but I think the shows deters teenage girls from becoming pregnant. In “16 and Pregnant” many mothers struggle through stress, go through breakups, and go through being isolated. In this specific show, many mothers show that stress is built during being pregnant because most of them are still attending school; Consequently, they have to manage their time better and try to get ahead before they give birth.…

    • 783 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Great Essays

    An intact home, by definition is a two-parent, traditional structure (Mullens, 2004). Any divergence from this, whether it be death, divorce, unwed pregnancy, or from a donor where there are not two parents involved would be considered a broken home (Kersha-Aerga & White-Lewis, 2013). With the evident issue that juvenile delinquency is on the rise, it is wise to look at the family structure of these children and if there is any effect leading to delinquency due to that child’s home-life. “The number of abused and neglected children has special significance for the juvenile justice system because many of these children end up in the system” (Bartollas & Schmalleger, 2014). Family is the most defining group of people surrounding a child which…

    • 1507 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Great Essays
  • Decent Essays

    Parents Trauma

    • 191 Words
    • 1 Pages

    This research report seeks to establish that the children whose parents have been incarcerated face a lot of serious challenges which may include emotional instability,…

    • 191 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Superior Essays

    Literature Review Millions of young children in the United States have a parent or parents who are incarcerated or have been incarcerated for the better half of their lives. In fact, research shows that the number of children with parents in prison has doubled, making them one of the most at-risk populations in the United States (Miller, 2006). Having an incarcerated parent or parents could have many negative impacts on the child’s social and mental health. Researchers hypothesize that exposure to neighborhoods with a high crime rate, poverty, and/or violence is more significant among children with incarcerated parents (Gabel & Shindledecker, 1993). I believe that the incarceration of a parent ultimately leads to, and could be instrumental…

    • 1637 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Gang Violence

    • 757 Words
    • 4 Pages

    The spike in the crime rate occurs for various reasons. One has to deal with the welfare reform, over the years more parents have taken on the responsibility of mother and father. These individuals caring for their children in a single-family household makes it hard to maintain. Families that fall into poverty and depend upon resources from the government are actually increasing the problems that their children will face later in life. Over the past three decades, the rise in violent crimes correlate with the rise in single-family households abandoned by their fathers.…

    • 757 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Imprisonment In Prisons

    • 723 Words
    • 3 Pages

    This is a mark of disgrace that the secrecy keep children affected by parent imprisonment hidden. To minimise the negative impacts of parental imprisonment on children, their needs must be acknowledged. Children of prisoners and the issues they face have been invisible for too long. The consequence of continuing to ignore these children is to reinforce the generational cycle of crime and disadvantage in which they are enmeshed. According to Johnston who has a doctorate in this area states “in the case of parent–child visitation in jails and prisons, it is clear that this beneficial, that a intervention will reduces the negative effects of parent–child separation and may therefore also contribute to a reduction of future crime and incarceration among prisoners’ children.…

    • 723 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays