Since time has gone by, has the romance culture change a bit? Like in those 80s movies how the guy prepares himself to ask a girl on a date, then later picks her up at her house and actually goes up the door and knocks on it to get her. What happen to the traditional courtship? Nowadays it is just like people date each other just for fun. They do not really look into the future for a life-long relationship. Too many things have changed for the worst as we progressed throughout time and that is why traditional dating is a thing of the past because we rely on technology, rarely go out on actual dates, courtship and simple acts of chivalry being faded away. Smart phones, computers, and other technology have taking over the traditional dating
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This generation of people just see dating as fun thing to do it seems like. They do not really look into future and think to themselves “Will I still be with this person 10 years from now?”. Also chivalry is dying out this generation too. What happen to showing up to a girl 's house and going up to her door and actually ringing the doorbell to pick her up? What happen to getting approved or accepted by one 's family? What happen to opening the car door for a girl? What happen to the romance? Nowadays it just seems like the guy shows up at her house and just sends her a text telling her to come out. Feels like some men have forgotten to treat a lady or maybe their parents just never taught them any those kinds of acts. Also it is not just men acting like a gentlemen, both genders play a role in these kinds of things. Some might think that dating and getting someone to love you is easy but most people have no experience on dating. It is a skill that surprisingly most people do not have but could be helpful for the future. “A lot of men in their 20s are reluctant to take the girl to the French restaurant, or buy them jewelry, because those steps tend to lead to ‘eventually, we’re going to get married.” (Williams par. 33) Men think that they if they buy this and that for her, they will eventually like them even more. You can spoil her all you want, but gifts are just an accessory to love, you can buy her the world but you cannot
This generation of people just see dating as fun thing to do it seems like. They do not really look into future and think to themselves “Will I still be with this person 10 years from now?”. Also chivalry is dying out this generation too. What happen to showing up to a girl 's house and going up to her door and actually ringing the doorbell to pick her up? What happen to getting approved or accepted by one 's family? What happen to opening the car door for a girl? What happen to the romance? Nowadays it just seems like the guy shows up at her house and just sends her a text telling her to come out. Feels like some men have forgotten to treat a lady or maybe their parents just never taught them any those kinds of acts. Also it is not just men acting like a gentlemen, both genders play a role in these kinds of things. Some might think that dating and getting someone to love you is easy but most people have no experience on dating. It is a skill that surprisingly most people do not have but could be helpful for the future. “A lot of men in their 20s are reluctant to take the girl to the French restaurant, or buy them jewelry, because those steps tend to lead to ‘eventually, we’re going to get married.” (Williams par. 33) Men think that they if they buy this and that for her, they will eventually like them even more. You can spoil her all you want, but gifts are just an accessory to love, you can buy her the world but you cannot