Personal Narrative: Becoming Pregnant And Giving Birth

Improved Essays
Becoming pregnant and giving birth is the greatest accomplishment a mother endures, I was able to experience this twice and had two beautiful children. Already having two children just about half way grown up my boyfriend and I were surprised to find out I was pregnant and we were going to have our third child. During this nine months I was pregnant, I chose to endure, what I would consider a great risk with many complications. I chose to take this great risk and put myself and my family through all the ups and downs not knowing the outcome. I would not change any of it, everything I went through brought me my beautiful baby boy.
I had many close calls during my third pregnancy, including kidney dysplasia, preeclampsia and ending up on bed
…show more content…
After getting a phone call from my OB, the first thing she told me was I had proteinuria- protein in my urine. She also told that there was a fifty percent chance that I was not going to be able to carry this baby to term, that was unless I could get through the first 4 months with my kidneys being cooperative and doing what they needed. Due to my one kidney working alone for so many years and because I had already had two children, my kidney was working as if I was roughly sixty years old. Next, my OB said I had hypertension- high blood pressure. She demanded I go in for further testing because with both, one hardly working kidney and high blood pressure I was a high risk for preeclampsia. Sure enough, preeclampsia was exactly what I had! As soon my Ob shared that news, she also mentioned the percentage of me carrying this baby was even less and if I chose to carry the baby I would risk having kidney failing while I was pregnant. All I could do was cry and think what if I got sick and this were to happen, my children would no longer have both their …show more content…
This was until I woke up from a nap one day and could barely breathe. Since I was experiencing so many complications I was only able to use herbal or homeopathic medicine, so what I thought was a cold became worse. I was having trouble falling asleep one night because I was unable to catch my breathe. I contemplated going to the ER for hours until I was gasping for air and my body was starting to tingle in random places due to lack of oxygen. Realizing I had no choice, I went to the ER. After sitting there for fifteen hours the doctors came in with a diagnosis, “I had pneumonia!”. Yes, I was beyond irritated and could not figure out how the ER did not notice this the many times before. I was admitted quicker than I’d ever seen happen in an ER before. I was told I had one of the worst case of pneumonia the doctors and nurses had never seen in a pregnant woman and spread to both lungs. Shortly after I was admitted they put me on oxygen, antibiotics, hooked up the monitor to the

Related Documents

  • Improved Essays

    Coming from a Mexican family and being a female is a bit difficult. It is difficult when you have family that is waiting for you to “grow up” to become a mother. Some family members belief this is still a norm for a female to get married, have children, and stay home to take care of the family. Just because some of the women in my family became mothers at a young age, I did not want to become a mother, at least not yet. On (Not) Getting By in America by Barbara Ehrenreich, she wrote “Happily, though, my fears turn out to be entirely unwarranted: during a month of poverty and toil, no one recognizes my face or my name, which goes unnoticed and for the most part unuttered.…

    • 754 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Clinical Writing Sample Initial Overview Raleigh Michelle Mallory is a 32 year-old, pregnant, twice-divorced, Native American female from Neah Bay, Washington. Ms. Mallory moved to Port Angeles, Washington when she was seven years-old, with her mother who was facing employment challenges on the Neah Bay Reservation. She vividly expressed during this recollection her past/present struggles with the dichotomous nature of tribal expectations and cultural integration associated with living outside of the reservation as a Native American on the Pacific Peninsula. In terms of family structure, Ms. Mallory is the second-child of a single-parent family. Her mother worked at a local grocery store for twenty-years before retiring, leaving her to oversee her sister to whom she…

    • 905 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Decent Essays

    Superbowl

    • 404 Words
    • 2 Pages

    It was Superbowl Sunday, February 3, 2008. I was looking forward to this day for so long I couldn't stand it. My family was having a huge gathering, I was going to be able to eat all the food I wanted. Little did I know there were bigger plans for me that day. I have had a cold, I coughed so hard I thought it made me urinate myself.…

    • 404 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Improved Essays

    I was examined again a few moments later and was still stuck at 8.5 centimeters. Unhappy with how slow things were progressing, the doctors decided to induce my labor. The nurse injected another substance into my IV and we continued to play the waiting game. An hour later the doctors came rushing in, bubs heart rate dropped dramatically. The medicine they administered stressed the baby out and caused her heart rate to slow.…

    • 341 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    After being surprised about my pregnancy, last week, I had the harsh reality of being pregnant woman. I was mentally and physically stressful because I had all ills related to the first stage of pregnancy. I was so stressed to the point of starting fearing for myself. I had dizziness, nausea, vomiting, and all these were constantly followed by a permanent flu. In summary I had a terrible week that I spent by staying in my bed and that really made me very stressed.…

    • 608 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Good day, This letter is to advise you of the reasons that I have not been up to par with my grades. The issue that has caused me to not perform well in school is that I was helping out my sister. My sister has been diagnosing with Rhabdomyolysis. It’s when muscle tissue starts to rapidly break down due to your body forming too much protein. When this happens, it begins to affect the heart and kidneys, causing an increase in CT levels in the blood.…

    • 822 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    A number of years ago, I started having severe abdominal pain. I made an appointment and the physician informed me that the pain was being caused by a pregnancy that occurred very quickly after a miscarriage. I accepted this information without question. At 31 weeks, I went into preterm labor and spent the next four and a half weeks in and out of the hospital and in and out of labor. My baby was born premature, but was healthy enough to go home the same day I did.…

    • 1355 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    My life was changing in ways I couldn't control and predict. The only thing I knew for certain was that my life as I knew it had ended, and I was embarking on a new course. Before my pregnancy I had heard different types of stories about pregnancy, labor, and delivery. All sorts of questions were running through my head.…

    • 443 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Decent Essays

    Every labor and delivery birth story isn’t the same, not ever women is the same. Not every women looks at it this way, but most soon to be mother can agree that the birth of a baby is one of the greatest feeling in this world. All the pain we go through at the end is all worth it. Every experience that child goes through may influence our action as an adult.…

    • 595 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Giving birth to my only child, Sophia Bianca, is one of the hardest things I’ve ever done in my life. A process that started nine months before she was born, I have to give up many pleasures in life to ensure that she will be healthy and strong. One of which is drinking coffee and eating sweets. To ensure her health, a healthy diet and routine were a must so I made sure I take a liberal amount of vegetables and fruits and get regular exercise as well. Dealing with occasional bouts of dizziness and morning sickness that goes with pregnancy wasn’t easy either.…

    • 504 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Decent Essays

    Yvette Marcia Davis, my mom, never believed that she was pregnant. After taking many pregnancy test, about six test and all came back positive, she still did not believe it. Finally she went to the doctor to see if it was true. My mom believed that she had a stomach ulcer. During the pregnancy my craved some random foods.…

    • 551 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Superior Essays

    I found myself partying and in a relationship with someone that I would not normally date. A positive pregnancy test sealed my fate. I would no longer be able to attend college like I had planned. Being a teenager and a mom would prove to be the most difficult thing I have done in my life.…

    • 1077 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    I used to think that giving birth was overrated and believed that the emotional rollercoaster leading up the birth was insincere. In my opinion, giving birth had always seemed frightening, long and most of all painful. Surprisingly, my whole outlook on giving birth and its emotional impact changed when I gave birth to my first child, Joy. I remember the day as if it was yesterday, despite the fact that it took place almost nine years ago.…

    • 742 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Essay On Preeclampsia

    • 1459 Words
    • 6 Pages

    Preeclampsia has been termed a “disease of theories” (Davidson, 2012 p.461) because the exact cause of preeclampsia remains unknown, although there is growing evidence that the placenta plays a central role in the development of the disorder. It has been suggested that preeclampsia occurs from defects in implantation and formation of the placenta. Placental implantation with abnormal trophoblastic invasion of uterine vessels is said to be a major cause of hypertension associated with preeclampsia. Incomplete trophoblastic invasion of the uterine spiral arteries results in failure to transform from thick-walled muscular vessels to saclike flaccid vessels. Placental hypo-perfusion, caused by the incomplete invasion leads to the release of systemic vasoactive compounds that results in an exaggerated inflammatory response, vasoconstriction, capillary leak, hypercoagulability, platelet dysfunction and endothelial damage (Lim, 2016), all which directly correlates to the severity of maternal hypertension.…

    • 1459 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Giving Birth Essay

    • 563 Words
    • 3 Pages

    This process was very painful, which she repeated a couple of times. By 9:00 a.m., my midwife decided to speed up the birth process by popping my water bag. She told me that in 30 to 40 minutes I should be giving birth; however, this did not happen. To make matters worse, she kept injecting me medicine to numb the pain of the contraction, yet I still felt the pain which continued on to 9:00 p.m. I was getting worried that the baby was drying up inside due to the delayed delivery.…

    • 563 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays