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While riding home from spring break I got into a discussion with my mom and my sister about a family friend. The family friend’s mother is dying of cancer, but the daughter refuses to admit it. The daughter keeps getting her medicine and painkillers changed because of the side effects of the drugs and will not let her mom take drugs that would help her be comfortable. The daughter’s refuses to accept that her mom has cancer that is throughout her body and is not treatable.
We discussed how her refusal to accept the face is hurting her mom but she cannot see through her own “selfishness”. I began to reframe the situation to talk about how people grieve differently. How she is going through the first stage of kulber- ross model. I then asked

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