Mussell stated that “emotional growth and maturity takes place through the fulfilment of needs within one’s environment (Mussell, 2005). Primary emotional needs are recognition, acceptance, understanding, love, privacy and discipline (Mussell, 2005). In accessing my emotional development, I have understood the needs that are adequately met and those that need emotional nourishment. Coming from a very supportive and stable family, my needs as an infant were met, this allowed me to develop trust in people. Within my family, I find myself living in social unity, sustained by a web of pre-existing relationships and obligations (Cherry, 2016). Receiving positive recognition from my parents, I am always inspired to do the right things …show more content…
Mussel stated that when humans are raised in a safe, caring environment, they value their lives and lives of others (Mussell, 2005). Self-reflection of my spiritual development has revealed a balance in four basic spiritual needs. My need for meaning and purpose has been satisfied by the oneness and wholeness of my spiritual community. Born in a community where spirituality is a social function (Braverman, 1994), full expression of my spiritual development depended on my connection with others. I still recall those beautiful memories of elders talking about their experiences. The elders taught us about the gift of nature and spiritual awareness (Mussell, 2005) by gathering us to enjoy the beauty of nature. This included observing trees, listening to the songs of birds, and the chirping sound of the crickets. Seeing nature as one of God’s amazing creation has greatly affected my self-appreciation and respect. I find myself planting trees, using recycled products and enjoying the gestures of animals. I also find myself communicating with family, friends and even complete strangers. Self -appreciation makes it possible for me to give back to my community; this includes my volunteering skills, donating to those in needs, and working together with people to raise funds for communities. This sense of identification has enriched my existence on this earth and balanced my basic need to give and receive love. This understanding has helped me to see how my spiritual state “is connected to the land, the people and the community” (Mussell,