Have you ever thought of putting spyware on your child’s computer? In the article ‘‘Undercover Parent’’, Harlan Coben discusses how most parents won’t even consider putting spyware on their child’s computer. From my point of view parents should put spyware on their child’s computer. Some parents will say that it’s better to use parental blocks that deny access to risky sites. For example, if your child looked up porn, your child would not have access to that website.…
In his essay “Undercover Parent,” Harlan Coben supports the idea of using spyware on teenager’s electronics by parents. Using this spyware you have the ability to “log every keystroke your child makes” (2) and invading their private space. While this idea is valid because most parents who do this are loving and only want to protect their children from harm, by placing this spyware on a teen’s electronics you are not only evading their privacy but also their trust. This is because more than likely parents are doing this behind the child’s back, which could ultimately lead to distrust and resentment due to the lack of trust in the teen to be able to make their own decisions. However, spyware on computers would, in fact, help to prevent situations…
In Harlan Coben’s article “The Undercover Parent” (2008), he argues that parents should use spyware to protect their children. He says that there is a line on how it should be used, but not using it would be negligence. Coben believes monitoring a child through spyware is a good way to protect them from harm. After reading Coben’s article, I have found that I disagree with his opinion. In the article, as coben writes while referring to a child, he states clearly “Shouldn’t he learn now that the Internet is not a haven of privacy?”…
In this article “The UnderCover Parent” Harlan Coben claims,that parents should put spyware on their kids computers, and phones etc, that kids couldn’t be trusted on the internet for the reasons that kids could be on websites they shouldn’t be on . Do you think parents should put spyware on their kids technology devices ? I disagree with Harlan for the reason that, Harlan is saying that children shouldn’t be trusted on the internet , I disagree because if you have a bond with your child (son/daughter) they wouldn’t abuse the internet and if they have a problem they should be able to come to you as a parent for advice . Another reason why I disagree with Harlan is because if you are spying on your kids you’re investing in their privacy…
Coben states that parents should be open to the idea of spyware and talk to their children about it, but they…
I have witnessed unkind things happen and have had things said to me over the internet that push me towards agreeing that parents should monitor their children, but I also know that I would like to have privacy just as most people do, which leads me to disagree. Coben’s arguments lack reliability and evidence in places where it is needed, such as when he gives examples of things people have said and when he claims to have done a great deal of research, causing his arguments to be weak. If I were going off his words alone, I would not be very convinced with Coben’s argument because of his absence of logos. I would see things in a new perspective, perhaps, since he gave reasonable examples that have a chance of happening, but I would not be persuaded to put spyware on my child’s…
In the article, “The Undercover Parent,” author Harlan Coben zones in on the currently advancing issue of children and their online safety and growing cyber independence to unknowing parents all around the world. His relatable style helps to hook the audience in conjunction with usage of both logos and pathos style set-ups. He continually brings up different types of scenarios and arguments to get into the heads of his audience. Although throughout the argument generalization is used there are multiple times when regarding parents there are also specifics placed on some types of people to add emphasis. Coben also hits on points of abruptness and slight offensiveness in his writing style to grab attention and heighten the severity of the matter.…
For example, he says that it can be used to “monitor your child’s behavior on the internet so that the parent may correct any unruly conduct. Spyware can also literally record every keystroke made while the program is running.” Coben also explained that responsible parents use spyware strictly to “protect their children from the dangers of the internet.” He states that “when used the right way spyware is a good idea because a watchful eye can help a person make better choices.” For instance Coben himself told the story of what happened to his friend.…
We can learn much about them from what they say about their topic, and how they incorporate their own experiences to help make the topic more relatable. Coben shares his personal experiences with spyware. He has many friends that use it on their children, so he has an inside view to the parent’s reasoning, how well it works, and their children’s reactions. His first-hand experience with spyware makes him more trustworthy and knowledgeable to readers. He has seen it in action, so his opinion has a factual base to it.…
Is spyware a good idea to keep your kids safe from dangerous chatters online? Harlan Coben, author of “The Undercover parent”, discusses that spyware may not be such a bad idea. Although it may sound like a good idea, there might be some invasion of privacy. I agree and disagree with Coben’s argument about putting spyware in your kids computer. From my point of view, I do and I don’t think it’s a good idea to keep your kids safe by putting spyware in their computer.…
Coban identifies both the positive and negative options of how spyware can be used to watch over teenagers and their internet activity. He encourages families and parents who…
First and foremost, a parent’s number one goal is to be one hundred percent sure that their kids are secure and blissful. Therefore, if spyware ever becomes necessary to fulfill this desire, then it must occur because it is the parent’s duty to be aware of their children’s habits. Coben explains that using spyware is a “scary, but a good idea” (1) as he considers spyware as a system to help parents monitor their kids and be assured of their safety. At first, parents may suppose that using the software is deceiving and that it should never even be considered. But, if they start to ponder on it, then they will understand its importance and effectiveness.…
Would you spy on your children with spyware? In the story “The Undercover Parent” Harlan Coben’s argues that parents should monitor their children with spyware. Spyware is a software downloaded to receive information and data from another's computer. I agree with Coben that parents should monitor their children. However, I disagree that parent should use spyware to do it.…
The Lower Merion School District provided laptop computers to high school students as part of a one to one program. The program allowed the students to bring home a laptop computer provided by the school district. Unbeknownst to the students or their parents the laptop computers were all programed with spyware that gave the school district access to the computers’ webcam. The goal of the one to one program was to increase the connectivity between home and school for students. The access to computers enabled the students to access online programs and activities that relate to the information that the students learned in the classroom during the day.…
Parents can simply install it and get weekly reports of everything their child did on the computer. When reading this, like Coben planned, I was intrigued. At the time, the invasion of privacy still struck me as slightly strange, but I was willing to hear his argument. The main argument he uses to justify the use of spyware is that it can protect children from online predators and other inappropriate material on the internet. Using spyware can help to alert the parent, who can possibly intervene before it is too…