The Undercover Parent By Harlan Coben

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Is spyware a good idea to keep your kids safe from dangerous chatters online? Harlan Coben, author of “The Undercover parent”, discusses that spyware may not be such a bad idea. Although it may sound like a good idea, there might be some invasion of privacy. I agree and disagree with Coben’s argument about putting spyware in your kids computer.

From my point of view, I do and I don’t think it’s a good idea to keep your kids safe by putting spyware in their computer. For one reason why I do think it’s a good idea is because there are many predators out there behind computers and fake profiles and acting like someone else. That’s where spyware comes good in handy because you can monitor and look at your kids messages.

There are many reasons

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