Harlan Coben's Article: The Undercover Parent

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In this article “The UnderCover Parent”

Harlan Coben claims,that parents should put spyware on their kids computers, and phones etc, that kids couldn’t be trusted on the internet for the reasons that kids could be on websites they shouldn’t be on . Do you think parents should put spyware on their kids technology devices ?

I disagree with Harlan for the reason that, Harlan is saying that children shouldn’t be trusted on the internet , I disagree because if you have a bond with your child (son/daughter) they wouldn’t abuse the internet and if they have a problem they should be able to come to you as a parent for advice .

Another reason why I disagree with Harlan is because if you are spying on your kids you’re investing in their privacy

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