10 Things that only Indian Mothers can understand
Being a mother is not easy but being an Indian Mother is full of numerous challenges. A mother is considered to be the primary caregiver but a father also has an important role to play in the upbringing of the child. However, in an Indian household, the mother has the most important role to play and follow certain set rules while parenting, that don’t apply in any other country!
Yes, believe it or not, Indian mothers go through a lot. They face various hardships while bringing up their kids. From,”Pata nahi yeh kispe gaya hai”, to,”Humne bhi bachhe paale hain”, Indian mothers have to listen to so many things from in-laws and people in the society. If you’re an Indian mother, only then you …show more content…
This is because one child may be good at something while another might be good at something else and such a competition creates an undue pressure on the child and his parents. Parents, who are not running after grades and just want the overall development of their child, may also pressurize their child to study hard and excel in studies. This creates a lot of stress in the mind of the child and he/she may lose focus …show more content…
Taking care of the children and household alone – Indian mothers are often overburdened by the responsibility of looking after the children and all the household chores alone. Many husbands feel that if they are going out to work, only the mother has to take care of the kids and they even feel that their wife is sitting idle all day since looking after the kids is no work.
Just because she isn’t going out to work and is not getting paid for her work, she gets to hear things like, “Bas bachhon ko dekhna aur khana banana, aur kaam hi kya hai ghar mein? Saara din toh free rehti ho.”
All of this makes the woman feel as if her efforts are unrecognized and that she’s worthless. The society must understand that apart from a job that has a salary, there are many other jobs/tasks which equally tiring. In fact, she is sacrificing her career to be with your child and that’s priceless. Somebody ask the men if they can do the same??
5. Blame is always on mummy – In spite of the fact that the responsibility of the child lies with both the mother and the father, if at all there is any complaint or if the child does something wrong, everyone blames only the mother. As if she’s solely accountable for the child’s
Being a mother is not easy but being an Indian Mother is full of numerous challenges. A mother is considered to be the primary caregiver but a father also has an important role to play in the upbringing of the child. However, in an Indian household, the mother has the most important role to play and follow certain set rules while parenting, that don’t apply in any other country!
Yes, believe it or not, Indian mothers go through a lot. They face various hardships while bringing up their kids. From,”Pata nahi yeh kispe gaya hai”, to,”Humne bhi bachhe paale hain”, Indian mothers have to listen to so many things from in-laws and people in the society. If you’re an Indian mother, only then you …show more content…
This is because one child may be good at something while another might be good at something else and such a competition creates an undue pressure on the child and his parents. Parents, who are not running after grades and just want the overall development of their child, may also pressurize their child to study hard and excel in studies. This creates a lot of stress in the mind of the child and he/she may lose focus …show more content…
Taking care of the children and household alone – Indian mothers are often overburdened by the responsibility of looking after the children and all the household chores alone. Many husbands feel that if they are going out to work, only the mother has to take care of the kids and they even feel that their wife is sitting idle all day since looking after the kids is no work.
Just because she isn’t going out to work and is not getting paid for her work, she gets to hear things like, “Bas bachhon ko dekhna aur khana banana, aur kaam hi kya hai ghar mein? Saara din toh free rehti ho.”
All of this makes the woman feel as if her efforts are unrecognized and that she’s worthless. The society must understand that apart from a job that has a salary, there are many other jobs/tasks which equally tiring. In fact, she is sacrificing her career to be with your child and that’s priceless. Somebody ask the men if they can do the same??
5. Blame is always on mummy – In spite of the fact that the responsibility of the child lies with both the mother and the father, if at all there is any complaint or if the child does something wrong, everyone blames only the mother. As if she’s solely accountable for the child’s