What Does You Do For Your Friendships? Essay

960 Words Dec 27th, 2016 4 Pages
I think sometimes people get so consumed in their own little bubble that we find every way to claim that certain people are not there for us like we think they should be. The real question we need to ask ourselves is, when was the last time you took the time to tell those you love the most how much they mean to you? Whether it is a simple text, phone call, or snapchat you need to put forth the effort to value your friendships. The worst that can happen is they don 't respond!

It is so easy to assume that you expected them to come up and talk to you at church last week or to invite you to a gathering at their house.The expectations we have for friendships sometimes are almost as unrealistic as expecting to have a love like a Nicholas Sparks movie. If you wanted to hang out with someone put forth the effort and tell them you miss them because nine chances out of ten most friends do not even realize when you are feeling left out or not important to them. Sometimes we are truly blessed with forever friends who you know you can go without months of communicating and then once you hang out again it is like things have never changed. Although, most of the time friendship take work just like a relationship you both have to put into it as much as you want to get out of it.

As I reflect on this past semester I remember feeling so overwhelmed with school at times and feeling like I was alone. Although I was never alone I always had people who were there for me it was just hard to…

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