Just because others have something mean to say and do not give the specials needs child a shot at being their friend does not mean no one should befriend them. No one knows, that special needs child may just have more in common with someone that would be considered normal than most people and become the best of friends with that person.
People in the community could help make a huge difference in the lives of the children.
There is one thing families and parents of special needs children have in common. All they want is for their children to feel accepted and included. “Results revealed that a prevalence rate ranging from
24.5% in elementary school to 34.1% in middle school. This is one to one and a half times the national average for students without disabilities. The rate of bully victimization was highest for students with emotional disturbance across school levels” (Blake). Well, someone may say this idea is not going to work because it will not stop the bullying, outcasting, and name calling of the special needs children. There will still be some children that will be left out of activities with other children, made fun of, and bullied. That may be so, but people in the community could help …show more content…
For a family with a young child with special needs life can get hard. The worry of people picking on and bullying the child is always there and whether or not they have fun with other people. “Parents hoped their child would: ‘be one of the kids’ (Parent no. 7); ‘feel confident and accepted in society’
(Parent no. 1); and ‘learn how to behave by watching and copying kids with no delays’ (Parent no.
7)” (Blackmore, Aylward, and Grace). With these pictures we can release that worry, at least for a day. To be able to show the children and their families the joy and acceptance from others, almost like outsiders of their life, is the greatest feeling of accomplishment. To know that the special needs children no longer feel alone and feel beautiful and accepted will overfill the hearts of many with joy and happiness. To feel beautiful about yourself if probably the best gift of self acceptance.
“Motherhood is about raising and celebrating the child you have, not the child you thought you would have. It’s about understanding that he is exactly the person he is supposed to be and that, if you’re lucky, he just might be the teacher who turns you into the person you are supposed to be”