Dawnitra-A Pathological Liar-Personal Narrative

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When I was 13 years old, after completion of seventh grade, my family moved to Kansas
City and I started a new school. I met my best friend Dawnitra (D) in eighth grade music class and we have been in each others lives ever since. I would not say that we became best friends instantly, this is a fact that neither of us denies. My hatred for musicals and constant bitching about having to watch them in class annoyed her. And I thought she was a bit mean; she used to trip me in the hallway just to hear me say “Damn it Dawnitra”. Over the last 20 years our friendships have seen ups and downs. I would say more high points than low points. We have grown up, apart, and back together in that time frame. To this day she is my “go to” girl about
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Well it came out that during one of these conversations the two decided it

would be a good idea to talk shit about everyone they did not like. I was told my name came up and I assumed it was by the male party because I thought there was no way “ my girl” Angie would say anything about me. I was incorrect. What she said is not really the point of this paper. I told D that she was talking about me and I was no long going to be friends with her because she is a pathological liar. D told me some things she said and about me after the
Vegas trip. I got a little annoyed because I felt that D should have told me sooner. We did not really get to finish the conversation because I had to go back into work so it got cut short. I thought I had told D that I heard Angie on the recording, still to this day I swear I did, but D only remembers me telling her that I heard Angie was talking about me, as in through someone not on a recording. D decided that she was going to continue being friends with Angie and that irritated because they had not even been friends for a year at that point. I thought D should have sided with me because we had 15 years of solid friendship at that point. After that more things
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When I got home I told my boyfriend what all happened and he was furious. He is protective of my feelings and does not like it when I get upset. I decided after I talked with him that I wanted nothing to do with her (he did not sway me one way or another in my decision) until she got it together. I made the dreaded phone call and it went as well as I thought it would, so not good at all. She pointed the finger and went so far as to try to convince me that I know did or said things I did not do. Some issues she had with me were simple misunderstandings that rational D might have been irritated with, but not to the extent of the anger she had. When we hung up with each other not only were we both anger as all get up, but nothing got resolved, it might have been worse actually. I decided that I did not want to end things like that so I wrote her a rational and calm letter of everything that had been bothering me. She wrote me back a hot mess angry letter that only pissed me off more than I already was. I wrote her back a short paragraph telling her I was over her bullshit and was not going to talk to

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