My Mother's Diagnosis

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My mother’s diagnosis of mixed metastatic parotid carcinoma has made a tremendous impact on both my personal and professional identity. It has caused me to develop increased independence, coping skills, and most importantly, learn the true meaning of compassion. Despite the unfortunate nature of this event, it has resulted in personal growth and skills which will serve me well as a future medical professional.
Prior to my mother’s diagnosis of cancer, I relied heavily on her for support. Suddenly she was in need and could no longer provide the same level of assistance. This forced me to develop increased independence for two reasons. Firstly, my mother would not rest if she was concerned for me, therefore I had to demonstrate my capability.

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