Harlenn Coben The Undercover Parent

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In the article, “The Undercover Parent,” Harlen Coben explains why he believes parents of teenagers should monitor their child’s online use using spyware. He states that the internet can be dangerous. I agree to this. However, I feel that when monitoring becomes spying, it has gone too far. Spying on innocent teenagers is inappropriate. It is an an invasion of privacy, makes people uncomfortable, and is unnecessary. Like I have said, spying is an invasion of privacy. Imagine someone secretly lurking through your texts, emails, or social medias. I am guessing you wouldn’t like that. Also, wouldn’t you feel violated if someone eavesdropped on every conversation you had between you and your friend? If you know you wouldn’t want someone eavesdropping

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