Harlan Coben The Undercover Parent

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In the New York Times’ article called “The Undercover Parent” by Harlan Coben,discusses the debate if parents should monitor their children and their internet use. In today’s cyber world, there’s Facebook, Tumblr, chatrooms, etc. that requires people to expose personal information about themselves. Once someone post a picture or reveals something about them, others around the world can see it. The article introduces readers to a new monitoring software called Spyware, that allows adults to see what their children are posting online. It updates daily and informs the main user of who is on this site, who is watching this video, or who is online shopping.Spyware has become a parent’s new best friend because it helps them protect their child

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