Bowlby's Issues With Forming Interpersonal Relationships

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I believed his issues with forming interpersonal relationships were linked to his insecure attachment with his mother (Bowlby, 2005). He had never experienced love or affection as a child, only abandonment and rejection and those fears had formed a continual pattern in his life which prevented him from getting close to people and connecting.

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