American Women Vs Married Women

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I agree, women were more financially dependent on their husband back then therefore, would have remained married. Additionally, women who did work outside the home weren’t paid as well, so they would have still been dependent. I grew up during a time when most American families were still traditional in structure. Back then, I believe that it was less common for a married woman with children to seek employment since their spouse usually made more than enough money to provide. Furthermore, divorce was frowned upon in the past because religious beliefs were stronger than they are today.

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