The Myth Of The Helicopter Parent Summary

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In her research article, “The Myth of the Helicopter Parent,” Susan Krauss Whitbourne defines that helicopter parent as the involvement of parent in lives of children with not only advice, but also with financial support in order to guide and satisfy them. She was discussing in her article about the effect of helicopter parenting. She refers to Fingerman’s research and writes that children with parents intense support had better outcome and had higher life satisfaction. However, parents who feel that their children need too much support lower their life satisfaction.
In reality, helicopter parenting can be of benefit and disadvantage on parents and children depending on how they take care and control their children in the house and at school.

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