Control is the fire that keeps us warm at night; when you stare into his flames, he brings such promise and light to our future. Watching the different colors of flames dance in a rhythmic pattern soothes ones soul to the greatest extent. His sparks speak such sweet promises of certainty, power, motivation and a higher status. Control is beautiful, and there is a great amount of effort that must be applied to keeping the flames from dying. Living without Controls flames brings in a life of certain despair—the future becomes dark and blocked from sight, nothing is felt, but cold and damp surroundings. It becomes too easy being trapped into the loss void without Controls fire. This is what makes him so important to our lives. Many times Control
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The idea to not possess a dominate title to another individual would mean that they are weak and passive; unable to grasp reality and responsibility over their life. This idea is supported by Nathanael J. Fast, Adam D. Galinsky, Deborah H. Gruenfeld, and Niro Sivanathan, writers of “Illusory Control” A Generative Force Behind Power 's Far-Reaching Effects which states, “[it] is well established that an absence of perceived control leads to depression, pessimism and withdraw from challenging situations” (Fast et alt, 502). The lack on control can bring an individual to question there motives in life; which is explains why individuals want to have control, in order to avoid the down falls of living without it. In contrast the the negative affects of not having control, there is reason to believe “possessing a general sense of control leads to self-esteem, optimism and agency” (Fast et alt, 502). Essentially there is a complete role reversal when control is seen in a humans life. The outcome of control can also give the perception “one has the ability to influence outcomes that are beyond one’s reach” (Fast et alt, 502). This is the ultimate goal for humans on a daily life. The feeling of having a influence on there personal outcomes of life. There is something that is scientifically making humans feels more powerful when they practice and have control over there
The idea to not possess a dominate title to another individual would mean that they are weak and passive; unable to grasp reality and responsibility over their life. This idea is supported by Nathanael J. Fast, Adam D. Galinsky, Deborah H. Gruenfeld, and Niro Sivanathan, writers of “Illusory Control” A Generative Force Behind Power 's Far-Reaching Effects which states, “[it] is well established that an absence of perceived control leads to depression, pessimism and withdraw from challenging situations” (Fast et alt, 502). The lack on control can bring an individual to question there motives in life; which is explains why individuals want to have control, in order to avoid the down falls of living without it. In contrast the the negative affects of not having control, there is reason to believe “possessing a general sense of control leads to self-esteem, optimism and agency” (Fast et alt, 502). Essentially there is a complete role reversal when control is seen in a humans life. The outcome of control can also give the perception “one has the ability to influence outcomes that are beyond one’s reach” (Fast et alt, 502). This is the ultimate goal for humans on a daily life. The feeling of having a influence on there personal outcomes of life. There is something that is scientifically making humans feels more powerful when they practice and have control over there