However, the memories and costs of his kidney failures have stayed with me and my family. I remember how my father was hooked up to a dialysis machine every night and how he had to dump out his own waste every morning. Most poignantly, I remember the night that my mother came to tell me that there had been a match, after a few years on dialysis, but that they had to choose whether or not to accept it. The match had been a frequent drug user, which meant the kidneys were probably damaged, but if my dad did not accept it then there was no guarantee that he would not have to wait for years more before another match was
However, the memories and costs of his kidney failures have stayed with me and my family. I remember how my father was hooked up to a dialysis machine every night and how he had to dump out his own waste every morning. Most poignantly, I remember the night that my mother came to tell me that there had been a match, after a few years on dialysis, but that they had to choose whether or not to accept it. The match had been a frequent drug user, which meant the kidneys were probably damaged, but if my dad did not accept it then there was no guarantee that he would not have to wait for years more before another match was