Social Paradox Of Love Essay
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The justification behind infidelity, ordinarily, is the admittance of once having a broken heart. This has created a cycle of broken hearts producing a society of disloyalty and non-commitment. So many of us are hurting from the pain we’ve endured and afraid of the karma due as a direct response of our actions. Left believing we can’t count on anyone for closeness and warmth, that love is temporary and reason to avoid traditional roles of commitment, parenthood, and marriage. The damage still seeps out. It’s notable in the abandonment, debasement, and violence we inflict upon ourselves, our spouses, our lovers.
We are all flawed and looking for a glimmer of hope in finding warmth and an everlasting love without worries of infidelity. We are a complex people and it’s never something to apologize for. Learning to live in our truth and acknowledging our flaws is the first step. Learning to love and forgive ourselves is the next step only followed by learning to forgive others. Carrying the burden of pain prevents you from allowing yourself to love and for you to be loved. I had to forgive my father, ex-lovers and myself so that I am able to find love without being the BAG