During my childhood I had been bombarded with messages about girlhood and being “pretty”. My rejection, apathy, and confusion towards girly things made me feel both like there was a distinct divide and that I was some poor unlovable soul trapped in between. I realize now that it is not so black and white, and it frankly need not matter whether or not anyone else or their grandma finds me pretty. My fashion sense these days is more feminine, but I am still the same girl who tucked her ponytail up into her baseball cap so no one would notice a girl on the field. I’m still the girl who is mystified by makeup tutorials and has no idea what “setting powder” is. I’m still the girl who classmates taunted for wearing baggy clothes, until they needed help with their math homework. That scared and confused girl is still with me, and I haven’t worn tights in over a decade, but now I realize that I am something much
During my childhood I had been bombarded with messages about girlhood and being “pretty”. My rejection, apathy, and confusion towards girly things made me feel both like there was a distinct divide and that I was some poor unlovable soul trapped in between. I realize now that it is not so black and white, and it frankly need not matter whether or not anyone else or their grandma finds me pretty. My fashion sense these days is more feminine, but I am still the same girl who tucked her ponytail up into her baseball cap so no one would notice a girl on the field. I’m still the girl who is mystified by makeup tutorials and has no idea what “setting powder” is. I’m still the girl who classmates taunted for wearing baggy clothes, until they needed help with their math homework. That scared and confused girl is still with me, and I haven’t worn tights in over a decade, but now I realize that I am something much