Letter For Father

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Your Honor,
I would like to begin my letter by stating that I believe both a mother and father need to be present in a child’s life for their to be healthy growth and development in a child. However, I firmly believe that my mother is not suitable to be the sole custodian for the majority of the year. I love my mother and my father, but most of all I love my sister. I understand that my sister wants to live with our mother, however, what we want isn’t always what’s best for us. With the amount of time my sister and I have been separated after our parents’ divorce totaling mere weeks, I believe that I have a firm grasp on the state of both of my parents’. My sister should not live the majority of the time with our mother due to many reasons.
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During this just past summer vacation period with my mom, precisely 3 meals were cooked. Beef stew, which was cooked and enjoyed by only Ben Boothe, Ribeye steaks, which were cooked by me and enjoyed by my sister, my mother, and myself, and Shrimp Alfredo, which was cooked and enjoyed by me. Every other meal was consumed at a fast food restaurant or traditional restaurant. While there is not anything inherently wrong with eating out, during a school year it quickly becomes unmanageable. When attending higher classes, there is simply not enough time to manage homework, test preparation, and extracurriculars along with an hour-and-a-half or longer of eating out. I have encountered this exact problem when my mother has her visitation in Zionsville. According to my mother, she still has not yet chosen a school for my sister to attend. (unless my mother is lying to me) which is simply poor …show more content…
Insofar, her interpretations of the activities have and will be flouted with hyperbole. I do not mean this in a facetious way. However, she herself has demonstrated why she would not be a suitable sole custodian. In her letters to the court she often stated that I have beat my sister, or some manifestation of the idea. By doing this, my mother has demonstrated that she, intentionally or unintentionally, disregards my prospects for the future. By cementing these grossly hyperbolic statements in her letters, she has diminished the chance of me getting, a job, internship, scholarship, etc. from anyone or any institution that does a character or background check for applicants. If my mother wishes to gain custody of my sister, she must prove that she is the best parent for doing so. While acceptable during vacationary periods, she would be ineffective as a sole

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