Who didn't think of me as a burden. For a self-loathing bastard like me, I'd say that's a pretty great accomplishment.
Imagine the following:
A girl of about 14 lays in a lavender colored room, in a far off the ground loft bed. Her mom describes the room as looking like World War 3 occurred, but she doesn't see the problem. In her left arm is a old and ragged teddybear that she'd been clinging to since the 3rd grade and farther over is a pink Hello Kitty Alarm Clock reading 11' o clock. Even though her room is a bit messy, outside is where the REAL war is happening.
"You give her everything, you're spoiling her! She's such an asshole that she can't do anything for herself! Slap her more! Why don't you treat her the same way you treated us! I hate the both of you! One of these I'm gonna move out and you'll both be crawling back to me!" Did she move out? No. Did my mother and I come crawling back to my sister? Ha, I have a special thing called dignity, even if it's the size of a dust bunny. Did we find an eventual compromise?