Although they did not have a father in their lives and they told me that I was lucky to have both who were married and still together, I always felt as if there was some void. When I went away to school and my friends’ parents would come down to visit, they were so happy. They talked to their mothers about everything. Their moms would listen and give great advice, and they enjoyed listening to their daughters talk to them even about troubling things. It made me sad.
Some background on my mother is that she got pregnant at seven teen years old. My mother then gave birth to my oldest sister, Lunden. She was kicked out of the house and left to raise my sister on her own. My sister 's father, who has twenty five kids that he does not keep in contact with, did not even sign her birth certificate, and remained out of her life. My mother then went on to marry another man and had two more …show more content…
That is what I believe happened to my mother. She told my oldest sisters before that she tried to abort them. And judging from the way she treats me lets me know that she never wanted children. As if having children was something that just happened to her rather than something she planned for. Because of this. I am completely and totally pro-choice. I know what it feels like to be unwanted and I know that the effects of that can be dangerous. Therefore, I know that I do not want any kids right now so I am celibate so that I will not have any