Vulnerability is a very powerful aspect in a person’s life. It can affect our feeling to the point where we feel like other people can never accept us. It is also described as a weakness or flaw, I see also as an insecurity, which a lot of us do have. Sadly, we don’t think when we see other people that they too also have some vulnerability, because we are judgmental and see other people as “perfect” or “imperfect”; never an in between.
What we fail to realize is that being insecure/vulnerable it makes that person who you care about realize you do not like yourself; this can happen the opposite way for the other person. As I have been told how can you appreciate or like someone if you can 't do the same for yourself? It is true, you simply cannot. I think vulnerability is a major factor in the “Social Penetration Model”, we automatically think that strangers or new people will never accept us like our family and close friends do because of that specific insecurity. There will always be that dreadful thought of feeling rejected or