The accepted interpretation of ‘chemistry’ in the context of dysfunctional relationships are that unconsciously a people who have grown up in a dysfunctional family will seek out to to recreate the drama they had in their childhood, and will be more attracted to people who have also been raised in a dysfunctional family. People who grew up in a dysfunctional family are attracted to one another as they have common ground. By sharing silent language of dysfunction in the form of strict rules. They are attracted to people who learnt in their childhood the narrow restrictions that they had also
