While there is a potential of success, at birth one becomes a very self-centered, dependent creature. If we are fortunate enough, to have parents give us the love, and the nurturing designed for them to give, one can become well rounded, however, in the parent’s humanness of not being perfect, most all have fallen short; moreover, most have become wounded because of this. In other words, this imperfect world and its imperfect people produce a wide range of issues throughout. More often, in the human developmental processes, there are many pitfalls or drawbacks to be suffered, in addition, to the many real catastrophes. Therefore, the opportunity to self-reflect on a series of questions and the impact it has made becomes quite interesting.
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Using the understanding of the model presented by Erik Erikson 's in his stages of psychosocial development and processing the explanations given about the eight stages through which development was attempted personally to become a healthily human (Erikson, 1982). Each stage becoming a foundational step in succession of life and personality, whereas, the challenges with some stages that were unsuccessful as could have been expected, to reappear as problems in current life. Those glitches would be the first to be changed. The importance of a solid foundation in one’s self is significant before one can expect to have healthy relationships with …show more content…
It is not in the control of a counselor as an expert or by being a friend to command such a change, however, as a consultant or observer offering studied opinion on what can effect such a modification. The importance of change is paramount personally, and for the world as a whole.
Throughout this world in its brokenness, there is hope in recovery, understanding, and practice, as life can have positive possibilities without struggle. Though development might have been flawed by imperfections of our caregivers with proper knowledge and care these imperfections might be corrected. Personal understanding of the shortcomings and pitfalls in life through time served in humanity, most of all, self-experience with most of these negative traits would lend to becoming a beneficial counseling component in mentoring to those that seek change in
Using the understanding of the model presented by Erik Erikson 's in his stages of psychosocial development and processing the explanations given about the eight stages through which development was attempted personally to become a healthily human (Erikson, 1982). Each stage becoming a foundational step in succession of life and personality, whereas, the challenges with some stages that were unsuccessful as could have been expected, to reappear as problems in current life. Those glitches would be the first to be changed. The importance of a solid foundation in one’s self is significant before one can expect to have healthy relationships with …show more content…
It is not in the control of a counselor as an expert or by being a friend to command such a change, however, as a consultant or observer offering studied opinion on what can effect such a modification. The importance of change is paramount personally, and for the world as a whole.
Throughout this world in its brokenness, there is hope in recovery, understanding, and practice, as life can have positive possibilities without struggle. Though development might have been flawed by imperfections of our caregivers with proper knowledge and care these imperfections might be corrected. Personal understanding of the shortcomings and pitfalls in life through time served in humanity, most of all, self-experience with most of these negative traits would lend to becoming a beneficial counseling component in mentoring to those that seek change in