A dream that brings with it respect. However, this dream is just exponentially more difficult to attain for poor people in inner cities than it is for the middle class because systematic boundaries hold back the poor. As Edin and Kefalas describe, “[…] the rare exception to the neighborhood rule [is] the one who avoids early pregnancy, finishes high school, completes college, gets married, moves to the suburbs, and has children¬, in that order,” (65). So critical in becoming “the exception” is the order in which these tasks are completed. The children come last so that they can ideally arrive in a stable home with sound foundations. But being unable to avoid early pregnancy and having a child terminates this path. The first steps of education become much harder to reach and progress down the path all but stops. The child, who blocked this first path, then becomes the alternate path to
A dream that brings with it respect. However, this dream is just exponentially more difficult to attain for poor people in inner cities than it is for the middle class because systematic boundaries hold back the poor. As Edin and Kefalas describe, “[…] the rare exception to the neighborhood rule [is] the one who avoids early pregnancy, finishes high school, completes college, gets married, moves to the suburbs, and has children¬, in that order,” (65). So critical in becoming “the exception” is the order in which these tasks are completed. The children come last so that they can ideally arrive in a stable home with sound foundations. But being unable to avoid early pregnancy and having a child terminates this path. The first steps of education become much harder to reach and progress down the path all but stops. The child, who blocked this first path, then becomes the alternate path to