I often sought the approval of man at the expense of hurting others around me, including myself. The practice of secrecy, or obscurity, was foreign in my life. I did many good things, but I also wanted certain people in my life to validate me because of it. Ortberg said, “When Jesus spoke, he was free from the need to create an impression. He was free to speak the truth in love” (2002, p. 160). It was liberating when I finally realized that I did not need to create an impression to please people around me. Ultimately, I realized that Christ approved of me regardless of what I accomplished in life. I was able to effectively lead in areas of ministry without an unhealthy concern of others opinions. This transformation produced results in my life that allowed me to experience an incredible freedom for the past seven years of my
I often sought the approval of man at the expense of hurting others around me, including myself. The practice of secrecy, or obscurity, was foreign in my life. I did many good things, but I also wanted certain people in my life to validate me because of it. Ortberg said, “When Jesus spoke, he was free from the need to create an impression. He was free to speak the truth in love” (2002, p. 160). It was liberating when I finally realized that I did not need to create an impression to please people around me. Ultimately, I realized that Christ approved of me regardless of what I accomplished in life. I was able to effectively lead in areas of ministry without an unhealthy concern of others opinions. This transformation produced results in my life that allowed me to experience an incredible freedom for the past seven years of my