Human beings can distinguish among desire for intimacy, love and sex by profound self-observation and self-reflection. The proper understanding of desire is needed for one to stop dysfunctional behaviors (Richmond, 2016). Dysfunctional behaviors can come from confusion. Thus, in understanding desire, even the desire for intimacy, one can master it through self-reflection. In the context of love, one can begin to nurture productive activities, and then through these create results for accomplishments (Richmond, 2016). One can observe oneself, and see if one claims to love, then one should judge what one accomplishes. If the accomplishments are really for the other, then one can observe oneself, seeing that one fulfills these for the beloved.
Conclusion Thus, human beings tend to confuse desire for intimacy, love and sex, conceptually and experientially. Desire for intimacy is a feeling, love is an act of the will, and sex is physical intercourse. Also, human beings confuse desire for intimacy, love and sex because the three are related to one another. Thus, human beings should distinguish among desire for intimacy, love and sex by profound self-observation and self-reflection. By doing these, a person can truly see the differences among the three: wanting to be intimate, wanting sex, and wanting to give