It all started when I was 5 years old. My mom came to my room and …show more content…
The counselor told me that I would have to get used to just seeing my dad on the weekends. She also helped me understand that the weekends with my dad would become the most valuable time that I would have with his relationship with me. She then gave me a few tips that would help me in the future to get over wanting to see my dad all the time. One of the tips that she gave me was to get a shoebox and write a letter to someone telling them about your feelings. This helped me alot. Once I accepted that my mom and dad would not be getting back together I started getting back in the same person I used to be. I would not cry as much at night, which soon evolved into not crying at all at night. I would quit writing letters to flood out my feelings, instead I would turn to my phone or tablet to get out of the world that I lived in. I believe that instead of writing letters I transitioned into playing on my phone or even just checking the time. Because it was easier and quicker to do than to get out a sheet of paper, a pencil and to find time to just sit and write a paragraph or two on how I