Test Ii Marraige And Family

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Love styles

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John Alan lee

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Eros

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Root of erotic

Love of beauty, passionate, idealized for beauty

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Storge

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Companionate love, calm, compassionate

Wants to marry their best friend

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Pragma

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Root of pragmatic

Practice love, susceptable of cheating

Blunt and straight forward

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Agape

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Love feast

Altruistic love, patient and undemanding

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Ludus

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Playful love, flirtatious, recreational sex

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Mania

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Obsessive love, madness, jealous, and moody, rebound love

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Triangle of Love (Robert Sternberg)

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Passion

Intimacy

Commitment

Consummate

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Passion

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Quickest to develop/ fade

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Intimacy

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Share yourself, open up

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Commitment

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Short-term : only for the moment

Long-term : forever lasting, in it for the long run

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Comsummate

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Highest form of love

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Sociology of courtship

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pursuit of a committed relationship

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Willard Waller

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"Principle of Least Interest"

The person with the least interest has the most power in the relationship.

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Richard Emerson

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"Alternatives/options"

Ex: women be with ugly men because of their money.

Only with the person for the things that makes them look good.

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Harold Kelly

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"Satisfaction/desires for the moment"

What meets my needs now?

Not always in a committed relationship like we say we are.

Expand your search outside of temporary satisfaction .

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Stage 1 Initial

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"Is this someone I'm interested in? Do we get along? "

Take the person for who they are, don't try to change them.

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Stage 2 Intermediate

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"Can we help and support each other?"

Do you match up with each other?

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Stage 3 Final

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"Does this my expectations for intimacy and support?"

Is that enough?

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Ira Reiss

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"Wheel theory of love"

Sociocultural factors economic structures that you can control influence financially/ who you are

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Bernard Murstein

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Stimulus- knows if he's a good man

Value- Do you believe they match up?

Role Model- "What are your roles? Are they matching with your expectations?

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Positive direction

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Going forward

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Negative direction

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Going backward

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Rapport

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Ease of communication.

"Is there a comfort level? Kindness has to be there/

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Self-revelation

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openness, you have to make yourself vulnerabe

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Mutual dependency

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idea of making decisions and helping each other make conclusions. Emotional and Spiritual support

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Intimacy needs fulfillment

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"Is that enough?"

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R.A. Lewis

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Prematical Dyadic Formation Framework

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Self disclosure and stimulation

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opening up and being yourself/ sharing things about yourself.

Is there stimulation?

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Vulnerability

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Are you willing to be vulnerable

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Role taking

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when you willingly to take a role.

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Phases of Courtship

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Beth Bailey

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Shift 4

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Shift 1

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empower from women to men

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Shift 2

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Power from parents to teenagers and yung adults

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Shift 3

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Increase in sexual activity

Because of the opportunity there is an increase of sexual activity

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Shift 4

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Importance of education

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Margaret Mead

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1.Dating has become socially determined.

"We are only working for someone to fill in the slot"

2. Daters today are gential and sexually destined.

BBecome an opporunity to engage in sex and not committed.