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59 Cards in this Set
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postnuptial agreement
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seperation agreement, ex-man who wins million dollars after divorce can't be asked for $
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marriage reasons (good)
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emotional security
companionship desire to be a parent |
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marriage reasons (bad)
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physical attractiveness
pressure from external source escape, rebellion, rebound, rescue |
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4 reasons for cohabiting
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linus blanket-people depend on one another
emancipation convenience-economical, and closeness testing |
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why living together increased
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-social tolernace-less stigma
-female equality -divorce rate, so high why bother |
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Family size and achievment
dilution hypothesis |
as number of children increase it has negative affect on achievement
-less achievement due to dilution of resources, time, money, etc. |
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Dilution hypothesis cont. sorta
discipline |
discipline in global rules, rather than to individual child
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1st born
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intellectual achiever, high self esteem
-role model, more responsible, less attention |
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last born
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sexually permissive, social , less traditional
-parents are less stressed, parent liberally |
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middle child
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-lowest self esteem
-less uniqueness -first is novel, and last is novel, middle is mundane |
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Cohabitation disadvantages
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-lack of commitment
-exploitation -fewer legal rights -less involvment with ext. fam -less resp. to partner during crisis |
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alternative household structures
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-platonic-'roommate marriage' ex-when someone wants citizenship
-LAT,-commuter and transnational marraiges -generation household, deadbeat parents, sick parents, lead to grandparents raising kids |
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selection hypothesis
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healthier people marry eachother
-unhealthy people have trouble finding mate -kind of like self fulfilling prophecy |
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protection hypothesis
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marriage provides social and econ. supports that are linked with improved health.
ex-partner will not like smoking -emotional health -reducing risk taking -aiding early detection and treatment of illness |
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Protection (social support hypothesis)
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-individuals reporting positive relationships thru life also report fewer physiological problems
-reduce risk taking -improves emotional health |
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stress buffering hypothesis
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quality of marriage will determine how much stress can be buffered by the marriage
-negative consequences of stress are diminished by the presence of social support |
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social strain hypothesis
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bad marriages impede well-being of married partneres
-unfulfilling marriages fail to protect individuals |
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Quality good
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reduces stress, risky behavior, and is associated with well being
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quality bad (of marriage)
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more stress, poor mental and physiological health.
-Depresssion |
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factors affecting success of transition to parenthood
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-how bad parents want to be parents
-amount of training -clarity of role demands of parenthood -amount of support available |
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boundary tasks
-renegotiating distance with family and friends |
overinvolvment with family of origins can lead to
-neglect of child -spousal conflict -generational conflict |
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contraceptive use
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1/3 of sexually active teens
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adult interdependent relationship
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Act applied in Alberta provides some but not all of the rights and benefits of marriage to "adult interdependent partners".
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acculturation
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process by which culturally diverse groups become more homogeneous through changes in idnetity, values beliefs and other adjustments
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women in first marriage
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helllllllsa happy
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Models for decline in marital satisfaction following childbirth
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-role-conflict
-restriction of freedom -sexual dissatifisfaction -financial cost model |
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role conflict model
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arrival of children leads to changes in social roles, moves them closer to traditional ones, women stays home man works
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restriction of freedom model
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children reduce time. Reduce activities couples can do. Shift from adult-centered to child-centered activities createst emotional distance
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o active confronting coping
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asking for advice, trying to solve problem
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o meaning-based coping
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attempting to grow as a person in other ways and redirecting life goals
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Most important reason for marital satisfaction
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communication
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quality of spousal communication depends on
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-how open partners are
-how well they listen -how atentive and responsive they are -do they confide in eachother |
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demand/withdrawal pattern
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demander will nag bully or ciricize other partner
withdrawer tries to avoid discussion through silence, defensiveness or withdrawal |
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rules of communication
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1. must be clear
2. be willing to hear and respond to partner 3. let your behavior speak for you |
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3 ways to increase marital well being
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1. better adapting to stressful events
2. better avoiding stressful ebents 3. reducing couple's vulnerabilities |
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o four factors which predict early sexual behavior
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presence of family member with dirnking problem
physical assault by family member early age of first drunkenness early age of first wanted sexual experience |
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• Weird thing that I think might be on test
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o women behave in innocent and disinterested fashion when sex is topic with men, but are more forthcoming when they are talking to other women
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theory of attachment
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Infants want to know if figure who provides support is close at hand
if answer is ‘yes’ hthan child feels loved, secure, confident and is likely to do well in environment If answer is no, child can feel anxiety, despair, and depression feelings of value in the home lead to conformity with the rules of other institutions like school |
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authoritative parenting
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o high acceptance, high control
turns out children who achieve highest levels of academic performance and mental well being |
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authoritarian parenting
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o low acceptance, high control
keeps kids from developing expressiveness and independence. |
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o internal moral control
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when feelings of guilt rather than feelings of anxiety control behavior. This can result from induction because when they break rules they realize they are contributing to another’s distress
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induction
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teaching good behavior by setting example of good behaviors then rewarding for good behaviors
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How work gets done in family
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-gender socialization
-specific expertise -issue of power/control |
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conjugal identity
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identity of each individual as a spouse
-assignment of roles depedns on personalities, social spouse maintains connections -context is dependent, may not apply outside the system ex-shy spouse but not shy at work |
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sandwich generation
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caring for both dependent children and older parents
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overload
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excessive amounts of work
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culturally induced stress
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load of stress and guilt that poeple feel when they fail to get all the work done
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spillover
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strains and demands that wokers bring home from workplace
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mommy track
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term used to describe women who are seen as less committed to their work and to their career thus less promotable
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family work
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tasks involved in preserving a family, such as coordinating famly activities with paid work and housework
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flextime
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working same number of hours but having some freedom to decide when to work these hours
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SWAH
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work in the home office taht is aided by technological advances such as computers
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Taiwan
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modernization
employess exposed to more stressful western work situations |
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sweden
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policies value father involvement
therefore give long parental leave gives flexible work arrangements for women |
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predictors of childlessness
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-fecundity
-marital status -age -labor force participation -education |
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unplanned parenthood
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40% of US births are unplanned
30% of conceptions end in abortion -barriers to contraception -lack of education -different moral standards |
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Tasks for new married couple
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1.est. identity as married couple
2. defining marital boundaries 3. managing household 4. managing emotional climate |
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why do people have children
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-obtain adult/family status
-attain IMMORTALITY -satisfy desire for love and primary group ties |
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Parenting tasks
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1. idenity
-defining parental identiy, goals for children, needs for children, etc. |