As a consequence, young women sought the counsel and advice from other independent women in areas such as teachers, bosses, etc. One strategy for self-reliance that many women seek is securing a job even if it’s not the most lucrative. Having a job allows oneself to be independent and create a sense of fulfilment. Megan, for example, viewed her occupation as a central key to her identity and social status in society. While financial gains are important, identity may prove to be more valuable. It wasn’t just the idea of supporting oneself, but also being “successful and [having] some recognition.”(136) In order to avoid any complexities with a career, self-reliant women may “seek to avoid the constraints of traditional marriage while still holding onto the possibility of finding a lifelong partner.”(137) There is a misconception that postponing marriage equates to the idea of avoiding relationships all together, which isn’t necessarily the case. Marriage may be a possibility for the future; however some self-reliant women prefer to focus on building up their careers for their long term
As a consequence, young women sought the counsel and advice from other independent women in areas such as teachers, bosses, etc. One strategy for self-reliance that many women seek is securing a job even if it’s not the most lucrative. Having a job allows oneself to be independent and create a sense of fulfilment. Megan, for example, viewed her occupation as a central key to her identity and social status in society. While financial gains are important, identity may prove to be more valuable. It wasn’t just the idea of supporting oneself, but also being “successful and [having] some recognition.”(136) In order to avoid any complexities with a career, self-reliant women may “seek to avoid the constraints of traditional marriage while still holding onto the possibility of finding a lifelong partner.”(137) There is a misconception that postponing marriage equates to the idea of avoiding relationships all together, which isn’t necessarily the case. Marriage may be a possibility for the future; however some self-reliant women prefer to focus on building up their careers for their long term