There are many crises people face throughout their lives. The definition of a crisis is, “a dramatic emotional or circumstantial upheaval in a person 's life.” (Dictionary.com). When we face crisis, emotionally and spiritually we are looking for healing. Ultimately, secular counseling falls short because it can only address the emotional hurt and not the spiritual hurt. From the beginning of time, humankind was meant to be in relationship with God and receive counseling from Him (Adams). According to Crabb, in Christian counseling there is an ultimate goal, which is spiritual maturity. A more in depth description would be, to receive direction and guidance from a professional as to how one should restructure, renew, and restore their lives to please God by becoming more Christlike (Crabb). Through this process, the client then begins to be less concerned with personal happiness and more concerned with pleasing God and serving him (Crabb). Ultimately, we cannot be happy and whole while not pleasing God. The three crises I will discuss in this paper are depression, eating disorders, and divorce. All three of these issues can cause lasting damage on an individual and only God has the …show more content…
Again, it is vital for a Christian counselor to pray before and after every session. Next, I would encourage them by letting them know it is not God’s desire for their marriage to fail and it is worth fighting for (Clinton, Sibcy). Many times, marriages reach the brink of destruction through small issues building up over time with no resolution. The cheap fairytale stories found in television series and movies have distorted the true relationship of a marriage. People enter into marriage believing it will remain in a honeymoon state forever, which is certainly not the case. After the newlywed love wears off, you begin to discover your relationship with your spouse and the dynamic it will