This made her feel as if she could not bring anything to the marriage. To know that the person you married, which was by force and not desire, would put you down for rice being too hard and to go as far as making someone chew pebbles is depressing. Mariam had to feel hopelessness in getting away from the verbal entrapment of Rasheed. Laila married Rasheed because he viewed himself strong and persuasive like the Titanic but in the end failed to live up to these standards. In the first beginnings of their relationships, she was high and lifted up by him. For Mariam this was not so. Mariam was compared to a car. Rasheed said that if “she were a car, she would be a Volga” (222). How could someone say this to a person? Should a wife have to deal with this criticism from a husband? At this point, Mariam had been trying to do all of her chores and everything she was supposed to do such as: cooking for Rasheed, doing laundry, and cleaning the kitchen. Mariam felt verbally entrapped because she could not do or act the way the unbreakable and almighty Rasheed wanted her to. All he like to do was remind her that “[she] was a harami”
This made her feel as if she could not bring anything to the marriage. To know that the person you married, which was by force and not desire, would put you down for rice being too hard and to go as far as making someone chew pebbles is depressing. Mariam had to feel hopelessness in getting away from the verbal entrapment of Rasheed. Laila married Rasheed because he viewed himself strong and persuasive like the Titanic but in the end failed to live up to these standards. In the first beginnings of their relationships, she was high and lifted up by him. For Mariam this was not so. Mariam was compared to a car. Rasheed said that if “she were a car, she would be a Volga” (222). How could someone say this to a person? Should a wife have to deal with this criticism from a husband? At this point, Mariam had been trying to do all of her chores and everything she was supposed to do such as: cooking for Rasheed, doing laundry, and cleaning the kitchen. Mariam felt verbally entrapped because she could not do or act the way the unbreakable and almighty Rasheed wanted her to. All he like to do was remind her that “[she] was a harami”