The Pros And Cons Of My Early Life

Superior Essays
What defines a person? Life has many ups and downs, positives and negatives, and unfortunately my early life had a few more negatives as opposed to positives. The biggest negative in my life was being bullied at a young age and the struggle to overcome it. Being bullied showed me that I can prove everyone wrong and no one person or persons opinion can or should define me and my future no matter the pain it caused. The early years were rough with minor name calling, but the real heavy hitters came at about 4th grade and just escalated until the end of 6th grade. But by the summer going into my 7th grade year I realized that I am a better person than all the people who were low enough to bully and I began to transition to tuning them out and I eventually realized that it all finally came to …show more content…
Once I got to 4th grade my weight increased probably more than it should have but I felt that there was nothing I could do to prevent or help it, which then lured the bullies in to basically try and hurt me. It wasn’t even a full month into school and the name calling was in full swing and hit me harder than ever. Recess was a living hell for me and it got to the point that I requested to stay in the office until it was time to return to class. People thought my mom or dad knew and asked for that but they didn’t know anything that was going on because I put on a fake smile whenever I came home and stayed in my room for the most part. Everything that was done for me as far as staying in the office during recess and eating lunch alone was all my doing with no questions asked because I did not want anyone to know and I just wanted to be alone away from

Related Documents

  • Improved Essays

    I wasn’t a bad child; I was quiet and stayed to myself. When going to school, I had kids who would bully me sometimes, standing up for me would work and sometimes it didn’t. That’s when I would call my auntie and tell her the things, I had going on in school. She understood me, she would tell me” son everyone is different no one is the same.” I need for you to stand up for yourself.…

    • 603 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    The school was small so everybody knew evrybody. I was bullied but not like Paul Logan”s bully who taunted him with name like “nerd, geek, loser” ( Logan page 9) The bully I had was a bit more subtle like a cat before he pounces. I did not even see it coming .They would insult me to my face and leave before I even realized what had happened.…

    • 662 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    After reading Jeannette Walls’ Glass Castle, I realize that she and I have a lot in common. From her parents arguing to her being bullied at school to her father dying, she went through a lot of situations that resemble some of the less known and serious problems that I had while I was about the same age. Jeannette had a tough life while growing up. However, even though I had similar issues, I lived and still live a relatively sheltered life. I, like her, simply viewed everything that happened as normal and didn’t realize that it was abnormal until I got into fifth or sixth grade.…

    • 1906 Words
    • 8 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Superior Essays

    What is it that defines a person and decides who they are? It would seem simple; what are the actions of said person and how do they affect other around them. The key to truly understanding a person is not by the current present, but the past and the chain of events that led up to it. The book “Life Studies” written by Robert Lowell addresses this fact. He dedicates this book to his life in hopes that the reader will come to understand why he feels and interrupts the world the way he does.…

    • 1822 Words
    • 8 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Essay On Cherokee Child

    • 772 Words
    • 4 Pages

    When I reached 5 years, school began and so did the devious behavior of those around me. The shade of my skin was insulting to children and they bully me about who I am and my hair color and the fact it was curly even instigated…

    • 772 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    I chose to write my reflection on chapter four Body and Wellness because this chapter relates the most to my life. I have been overweight most of my life and have seen how that can negatively affect one's state of mind. I understand how it is to have a low self-esteem and to be affected by body image. I started gaining my weight when I was in kindergarten. I was six years old, optimistic and cared very much about myself.…

    • 549 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Rumors spread rapidly around school through seventh and eighth grade; however, in eighth grade the rumors began to become worse and worse. I was constantly put down in school and called different names such as a worthless, stupid, fat, ugly, etc. Countless days were spent in the counseling office crying during my time in middle school and if I wasn’t in the counseling office, I would hide in the girl’s bathroom. The field hockey team I was on at the school and the news broadcasting team, I quit. I began losing interest in the things I once loved and I became very miserable at school and home.…

    • 125 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    The one thing that defines a person the most, is what they believe and what they value. A persons choices always reflect on their beliefs. As a Christian teenager, the music I listen to, the clothes I choose to wear, and the traditions in my family, all make up the person I am today. Music is a big part of who I am and is something that I love. I do, although, enjoy those silent moments where it’s so quiet that it seems like the whole world is still.…

    • 563 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Decent Essays

    Personal identity can develop and evolve over the course of one’s life. Aspects of one’s personal identity may include the colour of skin and where one grew up, features and characteristics that cannot be controlled or always changed. People usually define themselves by the choices they make in life, how they spend their time and what they believe.…

    • 89 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Decent Essays

    My Birth Experience

    • 212 Words
    • 1 Pages

    When I was younger I learned that not everything lives though birth. It started off as a normal day. I was in the 3rd grade and my dog, Baby Girl, was pregnant. I started my day getting ready for school. After I got ready I headed off to school.…

    • 212 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Improved Essays

    For me, it was not as serious as it could have been, unlike others who have experienced more physical or harsher verbal abuse by the bully. Fortunately, I was able to conquer my fears of going out and became more outgoing and did not let anything hold me back, whether I was playing sports or at work or just out with friends. Life is too short to be in constant fear or worry. When I got to high school I thought things were going to get worse, but because I was able to overcome, I achieved many of the goals that I strove to reach for like: getting high-honors all four years, winning two-state titles as a three-year starter in baseball, and making memories with friends that accepted me for who I am. In the end I do not regret anything and I believe that with the right support from family and friends anyone can learn to ignore the hate and strive to achieve anything they set their mind…

    • 1166 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    In elementary school, I was treated as a nerdy wimp by almost everyone one in my grade and had lots of people tease me including girls which increased my weakness even further. The main reasons people saw me this way was because wore glasses, was skinny, smart, and carried the weirdest backpack ever. It was a transparent Crayola backpack that made everyone tease me but even at that age I just didn’t care enough about what others thought of me since I loved that thing. My parents also raised me as a strong Christian/ catholic and they always told me to never fight or cause violence which made people tease me more. The first times I got teased, I always told the staff and they would help, but this made things worse since people labeled me as…

    • 1037 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    My Birth Story Essay

    • 706 Words
    • 3 Pages

    Birth Story My mom was 24 years old when she found out she was pregnant with me. She missed her period so she took a pregnancy test, followed by a doctor’s appointment to make sure.…

    • 706 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    I grew up in a small town called Breaux Bridge and attended the same school from kindergarten to eighth grade. While I never hated this part of my life, I had always wished for something more. I wanted to better myself in more ways than one. My school had around 100 kids per class, and I was always ranked at the top. Because of this, I experienced many years of bullying.…

    • 717 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    During my first mom baby experience at the hospital, my patient was a first time mom. She had a precipitous birth and gave birth to 6 pound 7 ounce baby boy. Towards the end of my clinical, I went into the room to discuss the patient’s labor and birth experience with her and her husband. She told me her entire story beginning with when she first started to feel some pain earlier in the day all the way through her giving birth. Her and her husband also shared with me the plans that they had mad prior to the birth and how much things had changed due to it being a precipitous birth.…

    • 928 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays